Family refuses to feed 5-year-old in their care after school, calls mom 'entitled' for complaining: 'Why would you intentionally leave a child out?'

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    AITA for acting entitled when I asked why my daughter didn't get anything to eat?
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    I 32F have a daughter 5F Ava. I got scheduled for another shift on Friday last minute and got Ava's classmate Lisa's mom to pick her from school and I'd pick up Ava on my way back from work. I have had Lisa over many times at my house, but I struggle to feed her as she is a very picky eater, but I try my best.
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    I picked up Ava at 7:00 and in the car Ava said she was starving. I asked her if she had anything to eat and she said no Lisa and her family had dinner but she hadn't. I messaged Lisa's mom politely to thank her again for taking in Ava at such short notice, and asked why Ava hadn't eaten anything at the house as she hadn't eaten since lunch at 1.
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    Lisa's mom was offended and called me entitled for expecting her to feed Ava on short notice after doing me a favour. Ava hasn't been over at Lisa's long enough to have food before, but as the whole family ate I assumed Ava would have been included? Lisa's mom brought up
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    how when I have Lisa over she doesn't eat, but that isn't from lack of trying. Lisa said Ava didn't say she was hungry, so she didn't know, but I think it's still strange that the whole family ate and nobody offered for Ava to join them.
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    daeganthedragon ⚫ 10 hr. ago NTA. I feel so bad for your daughter. I've been that kid that was told to sit in another room by myself while my friend's whole family ate dinner and it makes you feel really excluded and alone, especially when you're
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    hungry but maybe feel scared to ask for food-- I mean, she's FIVE! I barely have the strength to ask for food at a friend's house now at 31, I can't imagine getting up the nerve at a friend's house with someone's mom who is clearly
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    giving off vibes that she didn't want to feed her. Hopefully she doesn't remember those feelings too much since she's so young, but that's ridiculous. I doubt she would have had that big of a portion, anyway.
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    Expert_Slip7543. 9 hr. ago It strikes me as so wrong that now I'm wondering if there's something off about that family causing Lisa to deny herself food (being picky or what appears to be pickiness) while at OP's house.
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    • DesertSong-LaLa 10 hr. ago NTA - Adults who don't offer food to a child in their home while they are eating dinner are just wrong.
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    Could the mom be passive aggressive thinking you don't 'try hard enough' to feed her child? Either way, -- decide if this is still a good fit for your family and if so, pack your daughter extra food to eat dinner. It's way too long for her to go without.
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    • kellyjameson 10 hr. ago. NTA. people are so strange. as an adult, why would you intentionally leave a child out for a basic necessity? that is not normal. Lisa's mom doesn't sound like a friend to you or Ava. i'm also imagining them at the dinner table eating and poor Ava in a corner somewhere wishing she could have a bite. argh!!!
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    H4ppy_C 10 hr. ago Yeah, this is super weird. The child is a guest. Who eats a meal without asking their guest if they would like some food too?
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    EmperorKittyMeow Meow. 10 hr. ago NTA. Not feeding your daughter is just some weird -for-tat, evil step mum mentality type It's pretty cruel that their whole family was eating while Ava was, what, just quietly sitting off somewhere while they were all stuffing their faces. Gross.
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    • EsharaLight 10 hr. ago Wow, NTA. I would never have anyone, let alone a child, over at my house and not offer them food. Especially if I have dinner made and served. Lisa's mom booked a last- minute power trip to -ville with that move.
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    Real-Elysium 10 hr. ago • Time to stop watching Lisa lol. I once had my best. friend's mom call my mom to pick me up because they were going out to dinner. We had taken my best friend with us constantly for 3 years at that point and always paid for her. it changes your entire perception of the relationship forever.
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    Ecstatic_Hat5132 10 hr. ago Sorry not I feel like you're not mad enough. I would refuse to watch her child and you shouldn't let your daughter alone there. The fact they all sat at the table is beyond gross, while Ava watched for sat elsewhere. Disgusting behaviour
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    Maude Baggins · 10 hr. ago NTA - it seems bizarre to have anyone, much less a very small child in your home, with everyone eating, whilst excluding that other person. I grew up with my Mum always making some sort of snack for children or visitors that may appear. There was always emergency cake or biscuits in case of visitors. Not feeding someone is unfathomable.

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