Wife Goes Through Husband's Phone and Finds His Female Coworker Has Been Sending Him Risqué Photos, She Questions the Relationship

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    Over the last few months, my husband has been expressing regret about not living his life to the fullest. When I asked what he meant, he said he felt like he didn't have a normal teenage or young adult experience and that he wished he had explored more, including having more hookups with other women. Hearing this crushed me inside, but I didn't
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    • r/Marriage 1 day ago throwawayh5678 Husband's coworker sent him
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    My husband and I are high school sweethearts we've been together since we were 15, and we're both 31 now. It feels like I've known him my entire life. I love him and love how much we've grown, both individually and as a couple. We got married five years ago and we've planned to start a family soon
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    Over the last few months, my husband has been expressing regret about not living his life to the fullest. When I asked what he meant, he said he felt like he didn't have a normal teenage or young adult experience and that he wished he had explored more, including having more hookups with other women. Hearing this crushed me inside, but I didn't
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    say anything because I was glad he felt vulnerable enough to share his feelings with me, and I didn't want him to feel like he couldn't be open with me
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    He asked if I ever wished I'd been with other men, and my answer was no. That's the truth—he was my first, and the thought of being with someone else has never crossed my mind
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    This week, he told me about a new girl at work who he thinks likes him, but he told her that he was married. Two days later, he mentioned that the same girl started talking to him about her relationship issues. I found it odd that she felt so comfortable sharing this with him, so I asked why. He said, "People always feel comfortable talking to me."
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    Something about it felt off, so I checked his messages. I found out that he's been texting this woman very often. She's been heavily flirting with him. At first, he didn't respond much, but then he started engaging with her, even asking her for nudes. She sent a few, and he responded by telling her explicitly how he would " her." Ever since I saw
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    these texts, I've been crushed, and I haven't confronted him yet. I feel like he doesn't want to be married anymore and wants to be single so he can do whatever he wants. I want to confront him about the texts, but I'm unsure if they've actually had
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    Wide_Cardiologist... 1d ago I know young love can be romanticized, but.... This is the issue with it. He felt like he missed out and now will seek it out.
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    • bc... 1d ago Edited 1d ago I read a Reddit post here that a guy divorced his wife because he felt he missed out only to show back up a few years later saying how much he regretted his decision. Random meaningless is not better than loving intimacy
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    better than loving intimacy with a partner. Apparently some people have to learn that the hard way. I'm so sorry this happened to you. If you decide to stay and work it out, you can try new things with each other.
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    Ok_Artist4311 • 1d ago Even if they haven't had NONE of that is okay. Flirty conversation with a co- worker and then her sending him nudes (that he ASKED for) is cheating. Flat out, no. That is completely unacceptable
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    SpiritualAbalone8... 1d ago He said what he said because of this new girl. This is not something to ignore. He may not even realize he is playing with fire. If left unchecked, he will around and find out.
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    If he stops talking about her, it became physical.
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    gsusfreak 1d ago im sorry buts cheating in my book. i would be planning my exit.
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    Nobody-Important 1d ago. That's cheating to me, the emotional support, and hiding all scream cheating.
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    Edlo9596 1d ago He's already cheating on you and he's blatantly told. you that he wants to other women. It all probably started because of this particular woman. You will never be able to trust him again. He's thrown away over 15 years for some
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    random woman. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Whatever you do, do not sleep with him and do not get pregnant.
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    Longjumping Age... • 1d ago Give him his freedom. Divorce him and serve the papers at work. He may crawl back, but leave that door shut. Get to therapy to help you through this trauma.
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    Fancy PantsMead 1d ago 80/20 rule. It's a great rule. Most married people marry someone who's 80% of what they want. 20% looks huge when not getting it. They leave the 80 to get the 20. Only thing that makes the 20 look valuable is because it supplements the 80.

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