Parents Demand Gluten-free Snacks for Daughter’s Fake Allergy, Teacher Gets Involved When Another Mom Refuses to Cater to a Picky Eater

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    r/AITAH ⚫ 8 hr. ago • GoDavyGo AITA for refusing to cater to one student's dietary restrictions when bringing snacks for my son's 3rd-grade class?
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    My son's in the 3rd grade, and his teacher asked if parents could help by bringing snacks throughout the year. Lunch is later in the day this year, so these snacks help tide the kids over. It's all voluntary, and the only request was to avoid peanuts.
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    I've contributed a variety of snacks so far: Cheez-Its, beef jerky, fig bars, and Ritz crackers. My son mentioned that one girl in the class didn't like any of the snacks I brought. I didn't think much of it at the time. This week, I brought madeleines and apple sauce pouches. My son came home saying that this girl is now
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    claiming allergies, being gluten- free, avoiding meat, and having a bunch of other dietary restrictions.
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    I told my son, "If her dietary needs are so strict, maybe her parents should be the ones responsible for her snacks." Being the good-natured kid he is, he mentioned this to both the girl and the teacher, which got back to her parents, who then complained to the school.
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    The teacher, who has always been grateful for my contributions, is now in a tough spot and gently asked if I could bring snacks that fit this student's restrictions. Based on what I've heard, this girl's "approved” snack list is basically saltine crackers, butter noodles, and fruit snacks. To me, this seems more like a case of pickiness than medical necessity.
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    I told the teacher I understood her situation and that I'd love to keep helping with snacks, but I'd like to continue to bring the type of snacks I've been supplying and if one student can't partake, it should be up to that student's parents to provide for her. My wife thinks I'm being an a hle for putting the teacher in a tough spot.
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    I just want to keep bringing snacks that the rest of the kids enjoy. AITA?
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    whatev6187 8h ago Top 5% Commenter She isn't gluten free if saltines and butter noodles are on the list.
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    Mothra Didlt 8h ago • NTA. With that kind of a restrictive diet, her parents should supply her snacks.
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    Lucky_Six_1530 • 8h ago • saltine crackers, butter noodles, and fruit snack" Yet the first two are certainly not gluten free. Applesauce packets sound awesome and certainly fit the criteria.
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    KatFrog 8h ago • NTA. If these were real food allergies, the parents would have told the school about them at the beginning of the school year. I think that the student is a picky eater, and her parents need to supply her snacks if she needs special food.
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    PatentlyRidiculo... • 8h ago Top 1% Commenter NTA. The exception should not make the rule
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    LionessRegulus7... ⚫8h ago. All the holes have been punched in her "dietary restrictions". Gluten free? No saltines or noodles. Avoiding meat? No fruit snacks (unless you are getting the kind made with pectin, which are way more expensive).
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    xavdin 8h ago My nephew's and niece are vegetarian. For every parent catered event their mum would provide their "share" so that they don't feel left out. A tough position would be for the teacher to loose your contribution to pander to one child's entitled parents.
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    corgis_flowers • 7h ago • I'm dying to know how people are supposed to provide buttered noodles as a snack.
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    E... 8h ago Edited 7h ago Top 10% Commenter If the child truly has dietary restrictions and/or allergies the parents would want to provide her snacks to prevent her from eating something that could potentially be an issue for her. This seems more like
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    preference. Provide the snacks you want, but throw in a sleeve of saltines to keep the peace
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    HMS_Slartibartf... 8h ago Top 1% Commenter Get a nice big box of saltines and send it JUST FOR HER. Make sure to then bring in something cool, like fresh chocolate chip cookies. See how long she sticks to juts crackers. NTA.
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    ru_fkn_serious_ • 8h ago Top 5% Commenter Never understood how someone could complain about something they're given for free. Entitled people are big meanies.

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