Grandparents devastated after finding out their granddaughter has been stealing cash from them, she blames sister for ratting her out, causing trust issues in the family: “You ruined my life”

Hey there internet goers. Family is immensely important. Even if we don't want to admit it, we want to be loved and recognized by our family. Everyone wants a good relationship with family members, and when relationships are tarnished, it affects us to our core. Not everyone is close with their grandparents growing up, and some people's grandparents have passed away before they even met them. But having that extra relative who loves you and treats you well, who you can turn to for life advice, great stories, and even financial trouble, grandparents are amazing assets to have. When you're mad at your parents, you can always turn to your grandparents for empathy and understanding. Grandparents are associated with being sweet and innocent, so even more reason not to get on their bad side. 

But in the story below, the protagonist and her sister grew up extremely close to their grandparents. They went over all the time, their grandparents took care of them, and even tried to give them money on multiple occasions. They started to say that their money was going missing, but they laughed it off and excused it with their old age. You'll have to read the full story below for all the juicy details. 

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    AITAH for exposing my sister for stealing from our grandparents?

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    So, I (21F) don't even know where to start. I'm honestly all over the place right now and feel like the worst person ever, but here's what happened.
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    My sister (22F) and I have always been close with our grandparents. They're amazing people so sweet, always taking care of us, and they keep a lot of cash around the house because they're old-school like that. Every time we visit, they try to give us money, even when we tell them not to, but that's just who they are.
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    Anyway, for the past couple months, I've noticed something weird. After almost every visit, they'd mention how they thought they had more cash in certain spots. Like, "Oh, I thought there was another $50 here," or "Where did that $20 I left in the drawer go?" They'd always laugh it off, like they were just being forgetful, but I
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    don't know something about it stuck with me.
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    Last weekend, my sister and I went over there to visit. This time, I couldn't shake the feeling, so I decided to pay more attention. At one point, my sister said she needed to use the bathroom, but she was gone for a while. I don't even know what came over me, but I went to check, and I caught her in
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    their bedroom with their dresser drawer open. I watched her take money and shove it into her purse.
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    I was stunned. I called her out on the spot, and she freaked out. She started saying she was "just borrowing it" and would put it back. I told her that was BS and that this wasn't the first time I could just tell. She begged me not to say anything and said it wasn't a big deal, but I just... I couldn't.
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    After we left, I was so torn. I didn't want to destroy our relationship, but I couldn't let this slide. So, I told my parents everything. They were shocked and furious, and they ended up telling our grandparents, who were obviously devastated. My sister denied it at first, but eventually, when my parents pushed, she admitted she'd done it "a few times.”
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    Now, my family is a mess. My parents are so angry at her, my grandparents are heartbroken, and my sister has completely shut me out. She's been texting me, calling me a traitor, saying I ruined her life and blew this out of proportion. She even blocked me on social media.
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    I feel horrible. I didn't want this to blow up like it did, but I also couldn't just keep quiet while she stole from people who've done nothing but love us. My parents say I did the right thing, but I can't stop feeling guilty.
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    So... AITAH? Should I have just handled it privately with her instead of getting everyone involved?
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  • Do you think the protagonist made the right decision to tell her parents? Or do you think the parents made the wrong decision by telling the grandparents? To be honest, the parents didn't really need to tell the grandparents. What are these old people supposed to do with this information of deceit and betrayal from their granddaughter? It could simply tarnish their memories with her. They're old, and I'm not sure if that was the best move for people who probably don't need any more pain in their life. 

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    Candid Process 1831 Absolute not the AH you did what was right! She could have asked for money and they would have given it to here instead of stealing she is the AH!
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    Srvntgrrl_789 NTA. She was stealing! From your grandparents. The end!
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    FlatlineBadtime NTA. Your sister wasn't "borrowing" money, she was running her own personal heist movie on your grandparents. You didn't ruin her life... she did that when she chose to treat their house like an ATM with no withdrawal limits.
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    SeasonLegitimate 7... Nah, you're not the a hole. She was stealing from your sweet grandparents—like, that's low. Yeah, it s ks your fam's a mess now, but you did the right thing. She needs to take responsibility, not blame you. That's on her, not you.
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  • Okay if she was like 16-years-old I might be able to kind of see past it, and excuse it on her age. But 22-years-old? That's way too old to be 1) stealing, and 2) stealing from your sweet innocent grandparents. I'm not sure I fully agree with the OP who ratted her sister out, she could have just given her a warning I guess? Once something like that is out in the open, you can't put it back or go back to not knowing. Of course the sister is sorry about it, but now she will carry the guilt and shame every time she looks into her grandparent's eyes. 

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    Astreja NTA. What your sister did is shameful, betraying the trust of two kindly, loving people. She needs to face hard consequences for what she's done.
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    sims18cori NTA... It will take time for her to mature. Nipping lying and stealing in the bud early in life is urgent. Yes guilt is natural but you did the right thing as an act of love.
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    SamantaSassy NTA. Protecting your grandparents from getting hurt beats keeping a secret that would hurt them more in the long run. It's rough now, but honesty was the best call here.
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    Punintended1234 You are NTA! Your sister is a thief! She is literally going around robbing people. If you'll rob your family, you'll rob anyone! You did the right thing. Please don't let anyone tell you anything different.
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    Your sister needs help. She may have a problem or some other problem, but the one problem we absolutely know she has is the problem of stealing. She may have shut you out, which is sometimes a natural consequence of telling when someone does something wrong, but you
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    still did the right thing. Your grandparents don't deserve to be robbed by someone they allow in their home. I am also willing to bet your sister has done this to your parents too. You did nothing wrong. Don't let anyone shake your belief in your choices in this situation.
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