Woman stumbles upon boyfriend's family group chat filled with messages trash-talking her, reconsiders relationship when he fails to defend her: "In fact, sometimes he even joined in"

The family group chat is a wild place. I myself am in a handful. I am in a group chat with my parents, of course, as well as a big family group chat, which was originally a way for the Game of Thrones fans in the family to talk about the series. Eventually, everyone and their dog got into it. I have a group chat with all of my cousins as well as a separate chat with my female cousins. Trash-talking and venting in group chats is normal and expected, but it isn't exactly a free-for-all. Being overtly mean and critical isn't nice in any context, and bashing someone's significant other will always be met with pushback.

In our story today, our protagonist stumbles upon a group chat where she seems to be the most talked about topic. She scrolls though messages upon messages written by her in-laws criticising and tearing her apart. The worst part is that her own boyfriend, a member of the chat, does nothing to defend her and even joins in from time to time. Is this enough to end the relationship? Scroll down to find out. 

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