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AITAH? Girlfriend will not let me take overnight guys trip
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After 6 years, she has absolutely no level of trust for her boyfriend. Either that, or she enjoys controlling every aspect of his social life.
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People these days throw around “boundaries," “narcissism,” and “gaslighting” like they're Mardi Gras beads, but they actually have very clear definitions.
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“You're not a teenager begging mommy to go to a sleepover”: 24-year-old claims that boyfriend is crossing her boundaries by going on an overnight trip with his childhood friends, internet begs him to see the red flags
A massive red flag in any relationship is when one person feels that their partner won't "let" them do something. Your partner has no authority over you; you are not a child. People are free to feel uncomfortable over their boyfriend or girlfriend's actions, and they are also allowed to leave the relationship, but they cannot allow or prevent behaviors. For example, if a man doesn't want to date a woman that wears short skirts, he doesn't have to, but he can't "make" his skirt-loving girlfriend adhere to his arbitrary dress code.
In our story today, the internet opens the eyes of a 24-year-old man to the sheer toxicity of his current relationship. This comes after our protagonist makes a post detailing his girlfriend's reaction to him planning an overnight trip with his childhood friends. In short, she attempts to manipulate him into staying home by claiming that he is crossing a boundary. Read all about the red flags by scrolling down below.