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My boyfriend is choosing buy house and live with his sister over me
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Putting family above a relationship that is only one year old isn't particularly a red flag. However, it is clear that this man is not invested in our protagonist at all. He might have a weirdly close and co-dependent relationship with his sister, or that might be homegirl trying to pin his lack of interest on an external factor.
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It absolutely sounds like this man is aiming for a soft breakup. He doesn't want to disappoint her and has communication issues, but he is no longer interested in having a future with her despite what he might say to calm her down. He's hoping she will be the one to do the hard work of actually ending the relationship.
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32-year-old prioritizes sister over girlfriend, claims buying a house with his sister is a "safer investment" than marriage: 'He told me we can still have a family, he just doesn't want the legal ties'
At what point did you raelize that your previous relationship was over? I knew when we started talking about the future differently. At the beginning of my relationship with my most recent ex, we discuss at length marriage, where we wanted to move together, and we even came up with names for our potential future kids. None of this was set in stone, of course, but talking about a shared future gave us something to work towards and strengthened our shared values. However, as the relationship began to deteriorate, notions of the future became increasingly vague until it became clear that we wouldn't share one together.
In our story today, a woman starts to feel the vibe shift with her boyfriend. He becomes more distant, and he starts opposing the idea of marriage. In the middle of this is another woman, poised to buy a house with him. It's not an affair partner or work wife – it's his sister, and he's actively choosing her over his girlfriend. Scroll down for more.