'I live here, it's my home': Spoiled sisters drop their 8 kids and dog at younger sibling's house while they go out to party, they expect her to be an unpaid babysitter and then leave the home trashed

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    My sisters dumped their 8 kids and a dog at my house without letting me know

    'The house was absolutely trashed. Dishes piled up in the sink. Trash bags just left sitting on the floor. Food and drinks left out on the counters?'
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    Left the house trashed, and now I'm the bad guy for yelling at my niece...

    I (18F) live with my dad in a house that's rented to us by my sister2 (33F). I get that the house isn't technically mine, but it's where I live it's my home. I've had arguments with all my sisters before because when I call it "my house" they're quick to correct me and say "It's. sister2's house." I know that legally sure, but I live here it's my home.
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    Last week on Wednesday, I was hanging out at sister4 (26F) and sister5's (24F) house. Out of nowhere, sister4 goes, "Sister3 (28F) is going to bring her kids and sister1's (35F) kids to stay at your house later." She said it playfully, so I didn't take her seriously, especially since it was already late.
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    I went home, got in the shower, and mid-shower, I get a call from sister3's husband saying, "We're on our way, we'll be there in 20 minutes." I had no warning from them before that. The house was a little messy, I was on my period, and I started crying. The only thing I could think of was how last
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    Christmas they pulled this same crop, dropped the kids off, left me with chaos, and left my house absolutely destroyed. I just felt super disrespected like they don't see me as someone who deserves a say in what happens in my own home.
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    I called sister2 (the one who owns the house) to vent. She was understanding and apologized for the situation and tried to console me.
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    When the kids showed up, I gave them melatonin hoping they'd just fall asleep, it was late by then. I went outside to sister3 to tell her that not being given a heads up really upset me, especially since the house was messy. Her response was just, "Ugh, it's fine." I was still on the phone with sister2 while this was happening.
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    Inside, sister3's husband jokingly says, "Oh, it's fine, they're just gonna make an even bigger mess anyway." Like cool. Thanks. They also reassured me that sister1 was coming later that night and would help with the kids, so I just
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    tried to go to bed, even though the house was chaotic, the kids were running around, and the dog was literally in my bathroom's bathtub, which is in my bedroom by the way.
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    Fast forward, I tried my best to be nice the whole week. I stayed in my room for the most part to avoid getting overwhelmed but still went out of my way to make them feel comfortable. I bought sister1 a blanket, toothpaste, and even a hairdryer because she didn't have one.
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    Then Saturday night rolls around. Sister1, sister4, and sister5 decide to go to the bar, and guess what? They leave all eight kids at my house. As they're leaving, I hear one of my nieces say "Put those cats in the
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    bathtub," reminder, the dog was STILL in the bathtub. I completely lost it and yelled, "DO NOT PUT THOSE CATS IN THE BATHTUB." Yeah not my proudest moment, but I was just DONE.
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    I think sister1 overheard that but didn't say anything in the moment. Cut to the next morning, me and sister5 had plans to go to church. While sister1 was getting all the kids together in the truck to go get breakfast, I walked over with my boyfriend who was with me at the time and asked her if
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    she was okay because she seemed stressed. Her response was, "I know you weren't screaming at my kids last night and now you're all in a good mood." I literally just turned around and said "Oh no girl I'm not worried about you I'm about to go to church." And she goes, "Good. You need it." Like... okay?
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    Me and my boyfriend went over to sister4 and sister5's house where they were making breakfast, but even then sister1 showed up with all the kids again. I was like, "Bro... I cannot escape." For the record, I don't hate my nieces and nephews. Me and my boyfriend were actually laughing and joking with them before we went to church.
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    When I got back home, the truck wasn't outside, so I thought, "Oh cool, they finally left." But when I walked in, the house was absolutely trashed. Dishes piled up in the sink. Trash bags just left sitting on the floor. Food and drinks left out on the counters. The playroom, which was
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    spotless before completely destroyed. Toys everywhere, water spilled, trash all over the place. Even my dad's room was wrecked, clothes thrown everywhere, soda bottles and food left on the floor. The
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    bathrooms were disgusting, toilet paper everywhere, trash cans overflowing, and AND p p-filled toilet paper everywhere. Oh, and to top it off, they left the DOG. Because their Airbnb doesn't allow pets.
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    I'm just so tired. This isn't the first time this has happened. They've done this exact thing before, dumped the kids, made a mess, and dipped. They always try to pull the "It's not your house anyway" card to justify it. But I live here. I help take care of this house. It's my home. So AH for snapping at my family for once?
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    UPDATE: I texted my sister about the problem and this is how it went.
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    Me: i just want to start by saying i'm sorry for screaming at the kids. i didn't mean to make you feel bad or upset you. i was just really overwhelmed in the moment. i don't want to fight with you, and i don't want you to think i'm upset at you.
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    i was just really overwhelmed with all the kids being here. i wasn't given a proper heads up before they were dropped off. i know you guys don't think i have a say in anything when it comes to the house because i don't pay rent, dad does, but it's still my home. it's my space, and i just want it to be respected. I would've liked to tidy up before you and the kids got here.
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    i'm not trying to criticize you, but last Christmas when you came with all the kids, the house was left a mess. the kitchen was messy, and the playroom where the kids were sleeping was left a disaster. i was scared it was going to happen again, and it did. the playroom was not how i had it, the kitchen was left dirty, and the trash was left full.
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    i respect you so much. i know i'm your little sister, but i feel like i deserve some of that respect back, especially when it comes to my space. i live here with dad by myself, and i'm the one who has to clean this mess up. i don't want to fight with you, i just hope you can understand where i'm coming from.
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    Sister: I don't get mad at anyone for screaming at my kids or Katia's kids if they're doing. something out of line.. you did not scream at them, you treated them as if you were financially providing the time they stayed there and what they and what they consumed. As someone that
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    is very dirty, and not criticizing you on how you live, that house is a mess to begin with especially for someone that does not work and they stay home majority of the day! That house HASNT been cleaned, maybe you picked up around the house, yes! But
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    cleaned you have not. We did not go into your space, YOUR SPACE IS YOUR ROOM! The rest I asked EVER AND KARINA if I could stay there for a few days, I asked if we could use their house. Never did we ask for your space or never did the kids sleep and take over pmyour space. I respect to the
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    point where I am disrespected and from there on I have no boundaries. So no, that doesn't give you an excuse to act and lash out. The time I rented out a place for your graduation maybe we should have had you clean the place as well since your expectations are very high.
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    Me: the house wasn't perfectly clean, that's why i said i would've liked a heads up before y'all got there so i could've had it spotless for you. but it was most definitely not like this. i had that playroom organized, the toys weren't everywhere. the dishes were washed but left on the sink
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    counter not unwashed. the trash wasn't completely overflowing. i'm not perfect, no one is, but i'm accepting my flaws and the things i did wrong, and you should too.
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    it's really messed up that y'all treat me like this put me in a corner, disrespect my home, leave it a mess, and expect me to clean it up. and when i finally speak up about it, you just turn around and throw "it's not your house" in my face. so that means it's okay to leave it trashed like this?

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