38-year-old man has a meltdown when 29-year-old dog mom girlfriend spends her remaining money on medicine for her sick dog instead of spending it on him: ‘You’re acting like I shouldn’t be prioritizing his comfort or wellbeing’

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Jul 31, 2025 10:00 AM EDT

If you asked us to, we would jump in front of a moving vehicle to save our doggo. You wouldn't even have to ask us; we would do it instinctively. If we only had $5 left to our name, we would buy our dog food before ourselves. It's our responsibility to provide for them, and we take that responsibility very seriously. Any pet parent would. 

There was a time in our lives when we were really struggling. We were living paycheck to paycheck and were having trouble making ends meet. We also had a four-year-old dog to take care of. One month, we had to really tighten the financial belt in order to make sure we could keep our dog fed. Our friends called us "extreme" for not going out and spending any money, but this is what parents do. We put our children (be they four-legged or two) before ourselves. And if you're not ready to do that, then you're not ready to be a parent.

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    Am I overreacting: A guy I'm seeing is mad that I spent money on my dog

    'Any man who would want you to spend your last $9 to go see him, is not a man at all.'
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    1 29f and this guy "Richard" 38m have been seeing each other for about 7 months now. We aren't officially but its getting there.
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    00:07 Its looking worse its going up into his ear now. I did get some stuff in amazon to try snd hopefully that will clear it up. I thought u didnt have money??? Lol I dont I used afterpay I had like $9 and change and with afterpay it was like $3.81 What could u even get for 9 bucks Well technically it was over $9 it was $15 and change but I got a cone of shame and some Hotspot spray to hopefully soothe his itchy skin. Fr? + Text message :) 帅
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    Hes never seemed bothered about my dogs. Hes the one who asked how he was this morning and then well.... this happened.
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    11:27 71 ↓ SHCRT Yeah? Nah just think its funny Are you upset? What do you mean?
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    For context. I lost my job back in June burned through what little savings I had paying my bills and I wont have money coming in until the end of August.
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  • She got off lucky. It seems like dog medicine has gone up over the last couple of years. We had to give our doggo some antibiotics recently, and we were appalled at the price of them. And the best part? Not even covered under our dog's insurance. Great.

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    11:28 71 U tell me u cant see me cause u aint got money but then u go put urself in debt over ur dog. When u aint even got a job to pay it. Having $9 is hardly having money. And the way it works out every 2 weeks I should have my first from new job by the time the 3rd payment is due with the $9 i have enough in there for the 2nd payment. I also told you i could come see you once before I got the first check because I need tk save gas. Its not cheap. U could have paid for another trip w 9 bucks S
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    I have expressed my stress over Financials because I will have to let other bills go late to pay rent but with enough possible OT its a hole i can climb out of. Since we've been seeing each other I didnt think it was inappropriate to discuss with him.
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    11:28 Im tired after a whole day of work u dont have a job thats a difference. Okay then come on a weekend or something. Im in the worst financial position ive been in, ever and youre upset im not coming to see you? Thats wild to me. U lying about not having money and spending it on debt for a dog is wild to me to. Hes MY dog JD.... hes suffering. Would you be this upset if I had a child who was sick and I spent money on cough medicine? Ur being dense on purpose huh thats not the same thing and
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    Additionally. My dog has seasonal allergies and usually gets an injection at the vet once he starts having a reaction but since I lost my job I haven't been able to fford it so he developed a hit spot on tbe side of his face which is growing despite mt efforts to treat it at home.
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    Hes a living thing I care about deeply and youre acting like I shouldn't be prioritizing his comfort and wellbeing. And youre minding my pockets like its any of your business anyways. Dense is rich dude. Im just suppose to be ok w u lying to me and im only minding ur sh cause u were saying u couldnt see me and worried about u paying rent next month. If u dont want me to worry about it for u dont tell me or make better decisions. Im not going to continue this conversation with you. I don't want t
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  • If you can't understand that the dog's health comes before seeing you, then we might as well just end it here. This man is lazy and childish. What does he bring to your relationship? It better be really good if you're willing to put up with this kind of attitude.

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    . Amby_Bamby_94 · 14h ago Top 1% Commenter Oh y'all ain't even living together and he's already trying to control what you do. I hope you see the red flag there.
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    . What_are_clothes OP • 10h ago I appreciate everyone who has taken the time to leave comments. The amount of support ive received is mind blowing. There are too many comments to let you all know there is been an update and I cant edit the post so im leaving
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    this comment. I cant tell you why it took me 7 months to figure this out but youre all very very right. I spent a couple hours reading comments, waiting a bit, refreshing and seeing 30 more comments. come in and its scary but also very encouraging to have that many stangers see and support you. Me and my dog are gonna go chill out in the garden now.
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    3:48 Jd Blocked Unblock to receive messages from this sender Unblock 3:05 PM Let me know when youre home. Are u going to answer me or no? I actually just didnt want to speak on the phone. We dont need to have a whole conversation. I just wanted to let you know that I did not appreciate the way you spoke to me this morning. I also dont think our values align in how we treat/care about animals. Not to mention we have had several arguments where youve criticized me in an effort to "make me better"
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    alittleflappy Run.
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    SubToxic 14h ago NOR. No empathy for animals and not understanding people would pay literally anything to save or help their pet because they are family = horrible person/psychopath. Get out imo
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    Careless_Basil_530 - 14h ago NTA - you are responsible for the dogs well-being - not an adults emotional tantrum
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    Western-Trade860 14h ago . Yuck.. ones like this only get worse. Point out your flaws??? Lame
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    PGR73 14h ago . Dump the whole man in the trash. He has no empathy and no business in your financials. Any man who would want you to spend your last $9 to go see him, is not a man at all. Please end this.
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    asimpledruidgirl • 14h ago So, just to clarify, he..... 1. Has no compassion for a living creature 2. Refuses to come to you because he's soooo tired after work, but won't give you gas $$ to come see him
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    3. thinks $15 is "going into debt", but also shows no indication he's willing to help you out financially when you're in a tough spot 4. cares more about you coming out to see him than he does about you being practically destitute
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    Seems to me he just sees you as an object to bring him attention and affection. Granted, we're just getting a small snippet of the overall story, but even based on this, I'm questioning what he brings to the table in your relationship.
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    TX-Pete 14h ago Stop seeing him. Problem solved.
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    TheCoffinClub 14h ago . That's gross ☺☺ run away while you can Never prioritize a man over your animals ESPECIALLY if they were there first
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    Certain_Reality_2840 14h ago . Got the ick on the second slide would've blocked him mid convo tbh
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    Dynamite138 14h ago "Wah...But what about me? What a clown-a man-baby. No wonder women his age don't find him able.
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    MichaelAndolini_ 14h ago . Top 1% Commenter Shocking there's an age gap
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    Right_Way_9035 • 14h ago I know the easy answer is always to dump the other person on reddit, but this guy's attitude is ridiculous.
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    He's acting like you're strutting around like the wolf of wall street over a $9 treatment for your dog?! He's in a mood because you can't afford to travel to see him but unwilling to spend energy seeing you because he's "tired". What does that say about his priorities? Nuts.
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    nibeenibee. 14h ago This is the most disgusting red flag I've ever seen and you shouldn't even debate leaving someone so scummy!!!
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    kkrolla 14h ago • He's 38? I thought for sure he was 17. Any person who gets upset that I take care of my animals is no friend or partner of mine. You weren't wasting money on sparkly dog fur dye ffs. Bye bf. Awww, he's so tired that he can't drive there? So mantrum ensues.
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