30-year-old man requests $3 to split french fries with 28-year-old date, she calls him petty: 'I thought it was a joke, but nope, he was serious'

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    "AIO for feeling insulted my date Venmo-requested me $3 for half the fries?"

    Woman in blue sweater, striped shirt and gray hat smiling and holding a french fry next to man in denim shirt holding a cone of french fries
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    I (28F) went on a first date with a guy (30M). We got burgers and fries to share, and I offered to cover the tip since he paid for the meal. This morning, I woke up to a Venmo request for $3.25 with the note "half the fries." At first I
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    thought it was a joke, but nope, he was serious. I declined it and texted him that it was petty. He responded saying I was overreacting, that "it's about
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    fairness" and "that's just how he is." Now I feel turned off and honestly insulted. My friends are split, some think I'm being petty too, others think it's a red flag. Am I overreacting?
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    Ok-Soup-514 If people want to pay their own meals, great. That's truly being fair if both agree to it. But let's be real here: even if ge wanted to split for fairness sake... this is tacky because it's such a minimal amount of money. It's $3 bucks. It just shows how petty he is. Anyone with a brain knows that requesting three bucks back will 100% guarantee no future date.
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    He's telling you that the $3 is more valuable than your company. If he's so petty then fine. Send it along with a message to have a great life and hope the $3 was worth it. Then block.
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    MelsAlterEgo8 I would send him the money for my whole meal with a public message on Venmo to keep his petty a from me. Let all of his away contacts see it. I'll match petty any day. Lol If he wanted money, he should have taken it when you offered it. I'm so curious as to why he was ok with paying for the burger, but not half of the fries. It's not
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    like you ordered steak and lobster while he ordered a burger. I always offer to pay. for my half and/or tip if they decline. I never expect a free meal or anything. I'm participating in the fun, I can participate with paying too. If they decline my cash, I accept graciously. I agree with the other comments, dodge the bullet and find someone better.
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    Woman holding gray hat and pointing towards restaurant standing next to smiling man
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    NO... Your friends who think you are over reacting are as stupid as this guy. 1. Decline the request. $3.25. Ridiculous. Though the amount is irrelevant to the principle. But the amount in this case is trivial.
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    2. It's a date. He paid for the "meal." You covered the tip. Perfectly acceptable. Then he comes back wanting 3 bucks. What a 3. Consider this a great opportunity to see what kind of person this guy is early on with only a burger. You will avoid any more serious contention or grief. Drop this
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    And re-evaluate those friends who think it's fair" to cough up $3 for a burger meal date after the fact.
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    Exi... NOR. You offered to cover the tip. Which was probably worth more than $3.25. Then wants half the cost of the fries. At 30 years old!?! What's next? Fancy dinner then sticks you with the bill at the end of the meal?
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    I would send the $3.25, say nice knowing you, and block. Move on and find a partner who isn't so petty.
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