Employee quiet quits after hitting his $2M savings goal at 40, accidentally gets 4 promotions and becomes a millionaire executive by doing less work: 'I became an expert at saying no'

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  • "I “quiet quit” my job a decade ago. Welp, here I am, turning 50, 4 major promotions later, and my net worth is more than I could have ever imagined."

    FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - I don't normally post on reddit. But I wanted to share my personal story here. I have posted this on the Boggle Head forums before where I normally "hang out".
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - I am turning 50. I wish there were things I knew or someone would have told me when I was younger about work.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - That's what I would like to accomplish with this post. 10 years ago, I hit my "FIRE" number, or to be blunt: I had $2M cumulative across my assets.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - I was around 40 years old and thought I was the smartest and hottest person in the room.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - I told my wife, a teacher who has no desire to retire even today, at the time at the time I wanted to be done with work.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - She nervously pushed me to just "take it easy" instead in which I agreed. I decided to "quiet quit" my job of mid level management.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - To be blunt again, I decided to stop giving a flying fuck. Nobody called it "quiet quitting" that back then.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - Every single project or assignment I got I started delegating out hardcore. Every time a project team member was run thin I pushed the timeline aggressively back and hard.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - Stopped sending overly formal emails. Communicated to people extremely direct in conversation. I stopped being "the guy" and became an expert at saying no.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - Stopped working after hours, put family first and even missed deadlines if I had to (just always communicated directly to the powers at be).
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - Everything was offloaded. Even small meaningless stuff. I carved/willed into the existence a boring easy management role for myself from stressful operations.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - My work life became infinitely easier. It worked... My direct reports started to love and trust me so much more.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - My managers as my wife joke "saw management all over me". Eventually I checked the right boxes and got more and more direct reports and some promotions.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - I continued the exact same boring recipe and just off loaded every single task to another person.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - If a person was run thin, I clearly communicated it, and either got more resources or new timeline.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - If they pushed back, so would I. People stopped arguing with me after a while and learned to trust me.
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  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - Life was great and I had completely eliminated stress from my life, financially independent, and my commitment to the company was lower than ever.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - I am now #3 or #4 at this company. I followed this path for a decade and now my net worth is close to the big $10M.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - I have some options that are golden handcuffs which should net me an additional $7-9M. We hope to find a buyer for the company in the next 3-5 years which I will gladly wait for those to vest.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - My point is this post is I see so many young people, especially who share their stories here, work themselves to an unhealthy amount in stressful jobs to try to save enough money to "buy their freedom".
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - It doesn't have to be like this. You should never give your life, energy, or anything to your job.
  • FreshPerspectiveFIRE https://www.reddit.com/r/Fire/comments/1oopk2c/i_quiet_quit_my_job_a_decade_ago_welp_here_i_am/ - Focus on minimum amount of work (getting the stuff done), delegate everything you possibly can, and don't be afraid to say no.
  • UESfoodie The thing is, Bob, it's not that I'm lazy. It's that I just don't care
  • OP FreshPerspective FIRE You are my wife basically now.
  • ThaiTum You actually have to have some skill to be able to do this. If you're mediocre, it won't work.
  • OP FreshPerspective FIRE I think a lot of people are scared to lose their job, align with what their manager says, and it ultimately impacts their performance. You can update your mindset and ultimately the way you work so it's not miserable.
  • GushStasis How much time/effort did you spend quality-checking your direct reports' work/deliverables?
  • OP FreshPerspectiveFIRE There's a serious state of my shift required of blanket trusting someone. You let your guard down a bit, you won't give everything right, but in the end 1) I don't stress 2) If something fucks up it gets dumped right back and relayed and corrected Aka, things work themselves out if you trust everyone. It won't be the end of the world. It will get corrected.
  • nerd_is_a_verb "My advice is to recreate economic conditions that were way less competitive for upper middle class men of a certain age, be that man, and stop trying too hard. It'll all work out. It did for me." Idiotic fucking advice.
  • OP FreshPerspectiveFIRE I hear and see your frustration. The most I can do is share my experience as an older person who has been through it. I strongly recommend not killing yourself at the office and instead focusing on how to make it easy. That's all I can offer.
  • Few-Lingonberry2315 This guy is literally describing being a good manager. This isn't quiet quitting.
  • toobeary "All I do is delegate everything. When shit goes south I just communicate clearly and direct the person to fix it" So basically you do the same thing every other manager does. Delegating, communicating, and correcting is the full time job.
  • la_croix_official Two chicks at once, man
  • chillpenguin99 I always felt like project managers don't actually do anything. This post just confirms it. As a software developer, there was no one for me to delegate to. I had to just actually do the work. You are lucky and privileged that you were in a position to delegate everything. I would bet most people don't have jobs where they can simply delegate all of their work to someone else. Good for you, though.
  • Civil Connection 7706 That's just a real straight shooter, with upper management written all over him
  • burntytoastery This is the most boomer male shit I've ever read.

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