'Take my seat!': Father spars with entitled passenger for refusing to take his first class upgrade so he can sit next to his 10-year-old son

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  • A flight attendant goes through safety procedures in the aisle on a plane.
  • "The seat swap I never thought would be denied..."

    I'm still in a bit of shock. I was flying today with my son, who is a tistic.
  • Because he does best in a predictable environment, he was in the window (10F) and I was in the middle (10E).
  • I had even proactively removed us from the upgrade list to ensure we wouldn't be separated.
  • However, the flight was completely full with 4 people on standby. To make room for the standby passengers, the system triggered an involuntary upgrade.
  • I was moved to 2C (First Class Aisle) while my son remained in 10F. I immediately went to the Gate Agent to fix it, but her hands were tied.
  • Since the flight was already closing and the standby passengers had already been assigned my old seat, she couldn't "undo" the upgrade without bumping the standby passengers back off the plane-which they aren't allowed to do.
  • She told me my best bet was to swap once I got on board. Then things got weird.
  • I went back to my original seat (10E) and offered the passenger now sitting there a literal "Golden Ticket": My First Class Aisle for their Economy Plus Middle.
  • Person 1 (10E): Said no. Didn't give a reason, just wasn't interested. Person 2 (10D): I asked the aisle seat next to my son.
  • They said no because they were traveling with the three people across the aisle and didn't want to be separated for a 3-hour flight.
  • I know nobody is obligated to switch, and I always try to be the "polite passenger," but I never thought I'd see the day where someone turned down a free move from a middle seat to First Class.
  • I eventually found a taker in Row 9 who was more than happy to sprint to the front of the plane, so I was able to stay right in front of my son.
  • But man... I've officially lost the ability to predict human behavior. TL;DR: Flight was full and I was involuntarily upgraded away from my a tistic son.
  • I tried to give a stranger my First Class seat in exchange for their Economy Middle seat so I could stay with my kid, and two different people actually said no.
  • EDIT: A lot of the comments seem to think I was upset the person didn't switch.
  • I was bugged that I was moved in the first place, but I was not upset people didn't want to move, just perplexed ...
  • A smiling passenger holds a cup of coffee while working on his laptop on a plane.
  • Crazy-Database-9685 Man that's wild, I would've been sprinting to first class before you finished the sentence lol. Props to you for handling that situation so well though - involuntary upgrades when you're traveling with kids (especially with special needs) are such a nightmare. At least you found someone with actual common sense in row 9
  • smrdwnnow Original Poster's Reply Yeah, the crew and the gate agent helped as much as they could, and I appreciated their effort. I was just BLOWN AWAY by the refusal to switch.
  • LEM1978 You would've heard me from 4 rows away saying "take my seat!"
  • smolhouse That middle seat person was either flying for the first time in their life and had no concept of seat classes, or they reflexively said no and then kicked themselves the whole flight.
  • First-Satisfaction92 Maybe 10E read too many Reddit posts about stand your ground n say NO to seat swap requests... and took it to heart.
  • Lee2026 I've turned down first class upgrades. I knew the bins were full and didn't want to wait to get my bag after landing
  • AFB27 As much as I hate asking people to swap seats, this was a more than reasonable offer and I would have taken it. Very surprising.
  • WDWKamala At least you came with a compelling offer. It's a good reminder that our value systems don't apply to others.
  • Hells Tubular Bells Does the system force the upgrade in this situation? I always thought the GA does it once they control of the flight. They've always called me up to ask before splitting my party to upgrade.
  • johnonroad Geez, middle seat person, tell us your story. Reddit wants to know!

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