Adult son sells childhood toys on eBay, after his parents keep dropping them off at his house for his kids, when his mother discovers this, she donates his valuable Pokémon collection and cuts contact: 'I feel like I destroyed our relationship'

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  • AITA for selling my old toys on eBay, against my parents wishes?

    My (40M) parents (70s) have been going through my childhood room. Every time they visit, they bring a minivan full of 1980s vintage toys, clothes, music instruments, text books from the 90s, old books, video games, etc.
  • They are always excited to say that MY kids will love to play with them. Or love wearing the clothes.
  • Or learn to play the instruments. Or play the video games. My kids simply aren't interested in playing with GIJoes from the 80s.
  • Or G1 transformers. Or playing with instruments from my elementary school days. Or wearing 30-35 year
  • Or playing old NES games. We have a small single story house. Very small attic. No basement.
  • And there's literally nowhere to put all of this stuff from my childhood. And the kids are only interested in toys and clothes that THEY pick out around their birthday and holiday.
  • A bunch of vintage toys
  • So, I started looking on eBay. Some of these toys and video games are worth WAY more than I thought, so I started selling things one after another.
  • And the clothes I ended up donating. Apparently acid washed jeans aren't in style anymore. On the next trip, my parents started wondering where all my old childhood stuff went, so I told them I started selling things on eBay because we don't have the room and the kids aren't interested.
  • This made my mother livid that I would do that against her wishes to give my childhood to my kids.
  • In her mind, those toys were bought by HER (for my birthdays) and SHE owns them.
  • She said that anything else that's left in my room will be given away to the church.
  • You know what stinks about that? My old Pokémon and magic collection is still there... the church is about to get dozens of mint first run cards.
  • I feel like I destroyed our relationship with this move and it's got me down. They've always been there for me and my kids, but there hasn't been a text or call from them in weeks.
  • hypotheticalkazoos INFO: how far is the drive? go get those cards TOMORROW
  • Outside-Leek-5045 You are not wrong. You are resourceful. Your parents are a bit controlling. NTA
  • A distressed elderly woman sitting outside
  • Lighthouse_on_Mars Go grab your pokemon cards. Tell them you collected them and it's the only thing your kids might be interested in.
  • Regular_Boot_3540 So she wanted to unload all of this old junk on you, and she thought she had a say over what you did with it? That's ridiculous. NTA. Go get your Pokemon cards if you really want them.
  • GeorgeGorgeou NTAH These items were gifts to you. From that birthday onward, they were yours. And you can do whatever you want with YOUR stuff. I would drive over and get your cards..
  • sailormufasa NTA. Go get those cards NOW!!!
  • xMissing Music NTA, and that's your stuff. Gifts are yours, doesn't matter if she paid for them. You could technically go after her for theft (though they would DEFINITELY view you as an AH for that). Maybe try to have a compassionate conversation, acknowledge her hurt feelings but maintain what you've said. Your kids weren't interested so you sold your stuff. Nothing wrong with that.

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