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Siblings spend time together.
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Would I be in the wrong for not helping my brother any more?
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It's just one thing after another with the brother, as you'll see while reading this. My eyebrows just raised further and further with every sentence! Like, what does he mean he has no car insurance and yet is still driving?? That is a super unfortunate choice for him and the other driver involved.
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Oh he pays no bills? No wonder he's still avoiding accountability in his own life!
Paying bills does turn you into an adult over night. You learn what it feels like when the first of the month hits and you watch you bank account eek out money. No one's saying it's a fun walk in the park, but it's just one of those unavoidable parts of adult life. And the earlier in life you learn how to budget and plan for your financial future, the better off you'll be.
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So what do we think after perusing this story?
I hope that this woman can extract herself from the family finances after starting her new job. Just slam that financial door shut and build her own wealth! It wouldn't even be a mean thing to do to her brother, because that guy needs a serious reality check.
Even if this woman feels like she's mothered her siblings, it's not healthy to do that forever. He's 21 now, let him fly solo for a while and see that he is strong enough to handle life without his big sister covering for his every mistake.
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Large family with lots of siblings sit together outdoors.
The image does not depict the actual subjects of the story. Subjects are models.
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