Woman Goes Viral for Venting About Her Unhelpful Husband, Eventually Realizing She Hates Being Married

Nobody thinks marriage is easy, that's just common knowledge. But whoever thinks marriage is forever needs a serious wake up call. Divorce has been a common practice in many societies around the world for centuries now. Sometimes when a couple gets married it just doesn't work out, in fact and unfortunately, often times it doesn't work out. People get married young and grow apart or they simply just change and realize they aren't changing together. There are also more dyer situations that are cause for immediate divorce, but hopefully, if you're going through a divorce it's an amicable one. 

No gets married with the attention of it not working out and getting divorce has been proven to be one of the most stressful times in a person's life, which is why many try their hardest to avoid it. TikToker @gabby.gabsss recently went viral for her rant about her husband being unhelpful. They have a toddler together and she became a work from home parent while he went to work. So in the mornings, she gets up at 5 or 6am to feed their child and then the husband sleeps in until 9 or 10 and then goes to work. He doesn't help with anything around the house. The worst part is, that the TikToker only recently started working from home and had a job before and was still doing all the house work. So the husband truly has no excuse. In the video she says she is refusing to do his laundry because they've talked about it before about him not helping and she's at her last straw. 

“I f***ing hate being married”

She does her own laundry and leaves his and reminds him for days to do it. He throws in in the laundry, but then leaves it in the dryer even though she is constantly reminding him to throw his load in the dryer. She posts updates for days showing that he still has not done it and eventually she folds—his laundry was starting to stick, so she had to do it. But her caving didn't come without a price. 

Laundry Update Day 2

Laundry Update Day 3

She said he called her apologizing for not doing the laundry, but she had had it. They have had this conversation before and the time before this she said if he didn't change and help more around the house, she was going to leave. He said he didn't remember that, which clearly means he wasn't listening or simply does not care. The TikToker's rants turn to raw heart-wrenching confessions that are pointing her towards divorce. The husband never changes and allows fights her on her complaints about their relationship. He says she needs to tell him what he needs to do and she's trying to tell him that she already has a toddler to take care of, she doesn't want to take care of an adult sized one either. The husband doesn't understand that adults do things around the house because they need to get done, not because they're “mommy” told them to.

Update 4: Husband “apologizes”

“In my feels”

In the last video about her marriage situation the TikToker is very raw about how she feels and even starts to tear up. It's heartbreaking to see a wife who so desperately wants this marriage to work out, but currently it's just not. It's also so very real and exposes the true hurtful process that sometimes ends up with divorce.