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Bride Wants To Ban Kids From Wedding

This bride asked folks on Reddit whether or not she was in the wrong for wanting to ban kids from her wedding. She wanted none of the crying and other kinds of chaos that kids can create in those moments when everyone else is trying to keep some order in the atmosphere. People in the comments section seem to be in agreement that she wasn't being the nicest human being with that particular desire. 

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    Text - r/AmltheAsshole + JOIN u/[deleted] • 3d AITA for asking my Fiance to agree to a childfree wedding? Asshole So here go! Am I am the asshole for asking the soon to be hubs for a child free wedding? My Finace of 2 1/2 years and I are set to be married in a little over a year. We have been pretty much in agreement over most of the wedding planning except this one thing.
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    Text - I told my Fiance that I would like to have a child free wedding because I do not want babies and little ones screaming, crying, or running around during our ceremony and reception. This is our special day and I do not want that annoyance. Especially during vows! My Fiance however said that he wants his 11 year old son and his 4 year old niece to be apart of the day and be in the pictures and what not. I told him that i understand this, I really do. But I want this to be elegant. Not like
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    Text - Subscrib-2-PewDiePie • 3d • Partassipant [3] 1 Award Lmao why do people who don't like kids date people who have kids Reply 2.4k
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    Text - moongirl12 • 3d • Craptain [191] YTA. We're talking about his SON here. If with him at your wedding how can you expect to for the rest of your lives? you can't deal
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    Text - Dszquphsbnt • 3d • Supreme Court Just-ass [136] O 2 Awards My Fiance however said that he wants his 11 year old son YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE YTA You buried the lede with your title. It should read: AITA for asking my Fiance to agree to not having his son at his wedding? If this is real (and that's a really big if) then I hope to high heaven your fiancé finds this post and reads the onslaught on YTAS you are about to receive. Just in case you happen to be successful in gaslighting him into beli
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    Text - FoxWyrd • 3d • Partassipant [2] ΥΤΑ. You're really asking to not include his SON in his wedding?
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    Text - EclipticEclipse • 3d • Partassipant [1] ΥΤΑ. You. I don't care if you don't want kids at the wedding or at any point. Hell, I have none. But this is his son. Your future stepson. And kids at a wedding isn't an all or nothing thing. Your future husband and you get to set the rules. If he wants the two kids there, let the two kids come and say no to the others.
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    Text - blissfully_happy • 3d 1 Award YTA Omg, I married a man who has a child. 4 y/o when I met them, 7 when we married, 11 y/o now. That child is my son. I am not his mother, he has one of those, but he is my goddamn son, and I cannot, CANNOT imagine him not being a part of our wedding. You are making a commitment to this man AND his son. Not only does that mean you should have that son AT your wedding, he needs to be a part of it! Goddamn. Your husband is an asshole father if he marries you.
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    Text - MoeActionPlus • 3d • Partassipant [3] YTA - Not because you want a child free wedding but because your fiancé wants to invite ONLY 2 children and ONE of them is his SON. I have been to child free weddings with zero children, and I have been to child free weddings but they did allow that 1 maybe 2 kids (usually their children, or just a flower girl). But I have never seen a soon to be stepchild not invited to their parent's wedding. Though, I have heard this question asked on Reddit before
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    Text - Gone_with_the_tea • 3d YTA - that's his son. Your new stepson, btw. However, that's not the problem here - the problem is that you feel second to his child and that you feel his son is an entitled brat, correct? Have you talked about your fears and needs with your fiance or did you merely demand a child-free wedding?
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    Text - yppiks123 · 3d • Asshole Aficionado [16] YTA- This has to be a joke? Right? Please tell me you're not actually trying to deny his OWN CHILD FROM HIS OWN WEDDING? What is wrong with you?????????
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    Text - vodka_philosophy • 3d · Professor Emeritass [92] YTA. Child free is one thing, but expecting him to exclude his own child is bullshit and a total asshole move. Honestly if someone asked that of me I would walk from the whole wedding and possibly the relationship because a parent's child is always their top priority. Over everything.
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    Text - lightwoodorchestra • 3d • Certified Proctologist [23] YTA. You don't want HIS SON to be at the wedding? As in your future stepson? That is over the top narcissistic and selfish. There could generally be a compromise on childfree vs not but not when the couple has a child, ffs.
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    Text - k11689 • 3d I had a 1 year old when I got married. I had a childfree wedding OTHER THAN MY CHILD BECAUSE YOU ARE CELEBRATING BECOME A FAMILY YOU ASSHOLE. ΥΤΑ!
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    Text - rlb199779 • 3d • Partassipant [3] YTA, he is a father of course he doesn't want a childfree wedding! Do this man and his son a favor and cancel the wedding, your description of his son is childish and incredibly disturbing unless you are the evil witch of the west!
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    Text - ZucchiniPasta • 3d • Colo-rectal Surgeon [33] YTA, holy shit. You cannot ask the man to exclude his SON from his wedding. You have no business marrying a man with a child if you think this is okay.
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    Text - vvcomfy • 3d YTA because of the fact that the rule would exclude his son. Also you guys shouldn't be getting married because its clear you don't even like his son and he's a coward for choosing you over his son. When you guys break up and you have his kid he'll choose the next dumb girl over your kid and they'll be just as screwed as his poot soon is with a spineless dad and an immature hateful step mom.
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    Text - RoxyMcfly • 3d • Asshole Enthusiast [6] YTA, you are refusing to let your future step child come to your wedding to their father? I hope he runs, far away from you.
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    Text - sleepySpice9 • 3d YTA. That's his son. I get it though, you want this day to be about you guys. You said that he might demand all of your fiancé's attention. He will absolutely need to be around at least a bit. Would it be possible for grandma or an aunt/uncle to basically be in charge of hanging out with the kid and keeping him from taking up all of his attention? In addition to dad having a stern talk with his son about what he expects of him for the day. He's 11, not 5 so he seems old
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    Text - Cloudinterpreter • 3d YTA. I would like to have a child free wedding because I do not want babies and little ones screaming, crying, or running around during our ceremony and reception You know 11 year olds don't do that right? Also, your wedding is about the new life you're starting with your loved one. When they have kids, this union also includes them. You are getting a son. You don't want your son at the most important day of your life? Tbh, this request would make me dump you for bei
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    Text - Stag_Almighty • 3d • Asshole Enthusiast [9] YTA. Just because kids are there doesn't mean it's going to be a "backyard barbeque". Not even mentioning that you are not wanting HIS SON to be there.
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    Text - Arawn_of_Annwn • 3d • Partassipant [2] YTA just for suggesting it. Hell, you're TA for even thinking of suggesting it. It's. His. Son. His son is more important to him than you, and should be. You're a grown-ass woman.
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    Text - teresajs • 3d • Supreme Court Just-ass [122] YTA You're marrying a man with an 11 year old. Yes, your stepson should be invited.
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    Text - Rise-of-the-Aquarius • 3d YTA Childfree weddings are fine and all. When they aren't excluding the groom's son. I don't care how this kid behaves in his daily life. He deserves to be at his father's wedding. Other children that you barely know? It doesn't matter if they're included or not. But your fiance's son isn't just some other random kid. You and your fiance should have a talk with him before the wedding if you think he's going to be out of control or something. But it would be wrong
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    Text - eregina3 • 3d • Partassipant [4] YTA I get child free weddings and all but when said child is your fiancé's son that changes things
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    Text - cate2283 • 3d At first, I was going for not the asshole, because how peaceful a wedding would that be. But then got to the part about his son not being invited? What the actual fuck is wrong with you I hope he dumps you. Honestly I hope he does. That's some callous shit. You're the asshole. YTA. Y.T.A.
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    Text - Spkpkcap • 3d YTA. and it's his SON. How do you think he'll feel when he finds out his step mom excluded him from the wedding. He's 11, he understands. He can spend the night with family who are there too, his behaviour is on your fiancé, he let this happen. But you should also take into account that this is a lot on a 11 year old but clearly it sounds like his feelings don't really matter to you. I really doubt your step son will throw himself to the floor and cry during your vows. Your
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