Loyalty Test: Women Ask TikToker to Slide Into the DMs of Their Men to See If They'll Cheat, Many Get Caught Red-Handed

Trust issues are a common occurrence in relationships. They can be formed during that particular relationship or they could be brought from some other previous trauma that caused you to have trust issues. It's something that should probably be worked out through therapy and a self-discovery journey. But for an immediate band-aid for the trauma, other tactics are taken. 

TikToker Trinity aka @trinitykayh has gone viral for her “loyalty test." Women who are suspicious of their man for cheating reach out to her and ask her to slide into their DMs to see if they will do anything fishy. There are some grey areas, for instance, if I man just starts making small talk and maybe it gets a little flirty, but nothing too crazy. But usually, the man gives in quick to the temptation. The best response is no response, but if Trinity has proven anything so far, men are having a terrible time not responding…

FAILED

She's Seen Enough

The woman will provide the social media handle of their boyfriend and then sometimes some sort of little snippet of information that might help get the conversation going like where they work or somewhere they frequent. She sends screen shots of every response to the woman along the way and once the woman gives her the redlight that they've seen enough, Trinity blokes the man and leaves the rest up to the woman to handle. 

It's truly heartbreaking seeing how many of these men fail this test. Some of these people have been in relationships for years and have just always had a sneaking suspicion and now they have the proof. Of course, some people are commenting on the videos saying this is manipulative and a low blow, but if they woman is that desperate enough that she reaches out to a stranger for help, then it sounds more like the man had it coming. 

“It literally breaks my heart”

FAILED

Pass or Fail: Undetermined

Though many of the videos she shares are men failing (I mean, if the woman is reaching out for help, then it's most likely already gotten to the point of no return…), there are some men who pass. For instance, she reached out to one man who had actually already been caught doing some fishy things in the relationship, so the woman just wanted to double check. And instead of him failing, he told her “I'm gay” and instantly shut down any prospects of flirty banter. So it isn't all depressing fails! Some men give us straight women hope! 

PASSED

Anybody can reach out to Trinity with a request to catch their man cheating, but since going viral she receives thousands of messages from women worried their man is cheating and asking for her help. The sheer volume of women having this level of trust issues is heartbreaking enough.