Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Showing Up at Apartment Every Night, Roommate Lets Her In Causing Major Fight

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Ben Weiss • Writer and Editor
Feb 19, 2023 8:00 AM EST

This one had people totally split in the comments as to who was in the right. On the one hand, the ex clearly has a borderline stalker problem and it was getting to the point that perhaps the best move was to call the police. Or perhaps the best move for the Redditor was to let the ex sulk outside the apartment and wait to get advice from their roommate. However, on the other hand, the Redditor's care for the ex's safety is certainly something to consider. But at the end of the day, it might not have been their place to do anything at all. 

 

After u/VastCelery6379 posted this thread to Reddit's r/AmITheA**hole subreddit, it became clear that this was one giant sticky situation and the right thing wasn't necessarily obvious. Our take on this scenario was that the Redditor was right to be concerned about the ex's safety and was right to call them an Uber. However, they should have notified them through the door that the Uber was coming or waited with them outside. They should not have let them into the apartment, considering that sort of gives the ex permission to do something like this again. Share what you think was the best way to handle this one. For more, check out this post about a woman's revenge on her cheating ex.

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