The Holy Hypocrite: After Cheating On His Wife, Priest Manipulates Her To Help Him Raise His Affair Child In The Name Of Religion

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    Font - Posted by u/ThrowawayRunawayToot 4 hours ago My husband wants me to be a mother to his affair child
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    Font - I (29F) and my husband (44M) have been together for five years and married for two. I met him at the church I started going to when I moved cities to start my career. I work for an insurance company and he's a pastor. I know that we have a notable age gap, but he was always kind to me and made me feel special.
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    Font - Anyhow- a week ago he came home and told me we needed to talk. He told me through tears that he had been having an affair with one of our community members (34F) and that she had been pregnant with twins. She had gone into labor; she and one of the twins died and the other is in the NICU. He said we need to step up and that he wants me to turn my office into a nursery and set up a cot in the room so we can take turns.
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    Font - I became distressed and told him I wanted some time to think. That I was not sure I wanted to do this. He told me that I had made a vow to him in marriage and that God had blessed us with a child. That this is our cross to bear and that God will never give us something we cannot handle. I told him that it seemed God had given her more than she could handle because she had died (I know I should not have but I was not thinking correctly). He slapped me and told me that I needed to serve my
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    Font - I just feel so strange. Yesterday I cried so hard I threw up. This woman died, yet I feel bad for myself. I feel so ugly. I wanted children and was saving for IVF because I am infertile, but now that I have a chance to have a child and I do not want it. I feel like I'd be robbing its mothers grave. I pray to God but if I'm being honest it's never felt like anyone was ever listening. I feel like I have truly seen my husband and he no longer looks kind- he looks his age and very tired. I wa
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    Font - PureKnowledge58872 hr. ago Right "Thou shalt not commit Adultery" the book of Exodus ! Lol he must of missed that part !
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    Font - Rubella_reddit. 1 hr. ago Well, but it's just a tiny line! But he goes to church so it doesn't counts for sure for he is a good Christian and part of Christian community. Waaaaay less important than "obey your husband" thing
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    Font - I_Really_Dont_6498 · 45 min. ago Of course and lets not forget that even though commiting adultery is forbidden/a sin, as long as he acknowledges his sin to God and ask for forgiveness he'll be forgiven and everyone else and just shut up and sit quietly in a corner
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    Font - Dry_Ask54933 hr. ago · edited 3 hr. ago First, your vows to your husband mean nothing since they meant nothing to him when he had an affair with another woman. Second, your husband is the typical piece of shit that does horrible things but hides behind religion.
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    Font - Third, your husband hit you! That is absolutely not acceptable and I don't care what you said first. Forth, leave immediately, divorce his lying cheating abusive manipulative ass.
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    Font - zanimowi 1 hr. ago Imagine if it was the other way around. If you came home pregnant with someone else's child. I think he would have murdered you with his bare hands
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    Font - PrestigiousAd3081 3 hr. ago ● Girl, you better love yourself to leave.
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    Font - ThrowawayRunawayToot OP 3 hr. ago That's the hard part. I always have felt like I was never on anyone's radar and just their back burner. He made me feel special and loved, but this last week I feel like I've seen past that. Although I was old enough to decide to be in an age gap relationship, I feel like he had no business with being someone my age. I'm 29 now and I would feel wrong being with someone 24. I spent my whole life accepting second best and now that the one person who put me

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