‘I have a right to know what she writes’ : Entitled Boyfriend Demands Girlfriend Shares The Pen Name She Uses To Write Her Erotica Novels, When She Refuses He Proceeds To Snoop Through Her Laptop Without Consent

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    Facial expression - Posted by u/Ok_West_9375 6 days ago A22² S 5 AITA for demanding my girlfriend tells me her author's pen name?
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    Font - I've (m32) been dating Siobhan (f32) for 6 months now. She's always been very vague about what she does for a living (sati things like writing and working from home writing) but recently, one of her friends mentioned something and I finally dragged it out of her. She's an author, she write and self published romance and erotica stories and novels and while not rich, she's able to make a living out of it.
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    Font - I googled her name and couldn't find anything so I confronted her about this. She said she's writing under a pen name so I demanded she gives it to me so I know what she does.
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    Font - She refuses saying she doesn't want it to be leaked even by accident and no one knows. I accused her of not trusting me and she still refused which was really annoying.
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    Font - I tried nicer approach and told her that I want to know her fantasies so I can try it out with her and she told me that what she writes aren't her fantasies but her readers and she's still not going to tell me.
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    Font - At night I tried to check her laptop for her pen name but she changed her password before bed. I was annoyed and told her she clearly doesn't trust me and it's not fair because I have a right to know what she writes especially since it's a sensitive topic and I don't know her if I don't know her pen name.
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    Mammal - She was furious I tried to look on her laptop and told me to go home. Before leaving I told her when she calls to apologize, I expect to get her pen name with the apology. She called me an asshole on my way out.
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    Font - I thought she'd call by now but she hasn't. My sister told me I was the asshole and I should apologize but I just don't see it and need. Second opinion. Was I the asshole?
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    Font - thirdtryisthecharm 6 days ago 5 2 Prime Ministurd [441] YTA I have a right to know what she writes Based on what? You WANT to know what she writes - don't confuse that with having any sort of RIGHT to the information.
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    Font - liquid_acid-OG- 6 days ago This dude selling red flags down at the red flag outlet mall. Probably gives them out at Halloween too.
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    Font - Father-Son-HolyToast 6 days ago 2 There's a certain kind of person who believes being in a relationship confers to them some kind of ownership over their partner. But the truth is that a relationship is an agreement and bond between two separate people, who together come to an agreement on the terms and boundaries of their own relationship.
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    Font - OP, if your girlfriend wants to keep this part of her life private for now, then you need to either respect that, or, if you can't handle it, end the relationship. You don't get to go snooping through her personal devices against her explicitly stated wishes. Jesus Christ.
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    Font - ntrees007 6 days ago Bro wtf. YTA. She wants to keep it private and you keep invading her privacy to the point of going through her private things. You sound super weird regarding her basic request to not share her Penn name with you. Honestly, it sounds like if you found out you would blast it off everywhere so your gf has a point. Hope you never find out. Edited to add you're 32. Grow up. What is this behavior?!
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    Font - TheOneGecko · 6 days ago If they ever break up he will definitely tell everyone, just out of spite.
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    Font - Futueteipsum7 6 days ago. edited 6 days ago Asshole Aficionado [12] "She does not trust me with this important information! So I will go to the INTERNET to bitch to total strangers about it!" Who needs drugs when we have this level of unironic surrealism.
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    Font - Adventurous_Tie_3057 6 days ago Dude complains saying he feels she doesn't trust him. Looks at her laptop without her consent

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