‘When they act as if they don’t like or respect you’: A Discussion About Early Red Flags That Predict a Couples Longevity

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    r/AskReddit • 19 hr. ag chiphotog What is the most obvious sign a couple won't last long?
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    JPK12794 • 17h ago I always find couples who post about how much they love eachother on social media break up pretty quick. I'm not talking about like one post but the excessive ones. Recent example being a girl I know who posted probably every other day
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    about how this guy is her world, she'd be lost without him, she misses him when he's not there etc. they were together about 3 months total. I just find it so obvious.
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    GodsBleed Too • 15h ago Their communication just doesn't improve over time. Being in my first real healthy relationship I've realized that both people need to be committed to their individual and collective growth to create a fulfilling, healthy relationship. If one
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    or both people aren't trying and make a habit of withholding their true thoughts and make no effort to make the small changes to eventually meet the other half way, it's inevitable.
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    donttakerhisthe... • 14h ago After I was married about 3 years a coworker that had been married for a few moths asked how long we lasted before we ran out of stuff to talk about. I figured that was bad sign.
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    smolbibeans 18h ago ● They casually show signs that they don't respect each other: it can be a lot of eye rolling, mocking, condescending laugh, casually saying "you're so stupid", embarrassing in front of friends...
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    Barrack64 16h ago ● When they act as though they don't like or respect you. And when you point that out they say you're being too sensitive.
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    bkandwh 17h ago Different argument styles. Shows contempt for spouse. Talks ..... about each other to friends.
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    NoUnderstandin... ● 15h ago attempting to transform the other person in its entirety. Never succeeds
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    AloofusDoofus • 16h ago When 1 person really wants a and the other person really doesn't want a
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    542Archiya124. 17h ago See their conflict resolution process.
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    FUThead2016 • 13h ago When they fight with each other in a passive aggressive way in front of friends. Went to this dinner once where the guy was showing off his new plasma TV, and it ended up with the girl throwing one of his awards into the TV to smash it.
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    into the TV to smash it. Really uncomfortable to be a guest there.
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    YourFanBB 14h ago I would say no emotional connection. Like the other person cannot trust you and tell you what he feels or what he's been through or deals with right now. And here, I understand that some people need their time to open up and find
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    their own words to express their emotions, I'm one of them. But I'm referring to people who don't even try, even for small stuff. Just to give an exemple: Normal day. You and your pal sit together. You ask them about some stuff that's been bothering him, cuz you see
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    him worried and sad. He doesn't say anything or that's nothing. This happens over and over again. Or you do sth that your pal doesn't like, but he's not telling you. The only time you will hear what he didnt like in the relationship or what he didnt like about you will be in an argument or at the
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    in an argument or at the breaking point.
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    New-Bonus5383 • 16h ago One does not listen when one talks
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    p... 13h ago Edited 8h ago My friend works in the wedding industry and said the couples who shove cake in each other's faces tend not to last. EDIT: Should have clarified. Only when it's clear it was not talked about beforehand.
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    No-Conclusion86.... 15h ago Look at their face when they get a phone call from the other person. Tells you all you need to know.
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    MeanOldGranny 15h ago Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling: the four horsemen

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