Wedding Turns to Shambles When Husband’s Female Friend Has Full-blown Tantrum at Wedding, He Takes Her Side, Leading to Potential Annulment

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    r/TrueOffMyChest ⚫ Level_Cabinet3237 My wedding was ruined.
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    I've debated about posting this but i have to rant to someone. Me (23f) and my now husband, Josh (26m) had our wedding last week. at first everything was beautiful, I got married to my highschool sweet heart and was so happy. It felt like my fairytale come true, I felt like a princess. While I'm taking photos with my bridesmaids, I see Josh's cousin
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    (Nicole) with a girl (I'll call her sarah) I'm unfamiliar with. She seems non talkative but is friendly to me at first. We finish our photos and go inside to relax and chat before I walk down the aisle. A long while later, after the vows were exchanged, I bump into Sarah while on my way to the
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    food table. She's clearly intoxicated, but through her slurred speaking I could hear her ranting about how crowded the venue was but then it escalates. I was getting food for my mom when she said to me that she's surprised Josh married "someone like me" because Josh could do better than me. I tried to laugh it off and I told her I was very lucky
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    to have him. The interaction left me feeling upset but I brushed it off as her just being drunk and I starting drinking too and soon forgot about it. Time goes past and I'm feeling good, me and my husband along with all the guests were dancing. Suddenly, I hear a crashing sound near the food table and all of us rush over to
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    see what was happening. I see Sarah on the ground sobbing hysterically, and Nicole was trying to calm her down. She had completely smashed my wedding cake, and ripped the decorations. My heart was broken to see my wedding cake completely destroyed but I tried to ask what was wrong, and Sarah started
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    screaming and cursing me. I was confused and drunk so I started shouting back and ordered my husband to kick her out. He didn't want to and told me she should be allowed to stay since she was a friend. I argued with him and told him that she's ruined my wedding. It eventually took my husband and Nicole to get her
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    under control and convince her to go home. Nicole left with Sarah and when my husband came back he looked angry with me. He completely blew me off for the rest of the night and I could tell the atmosphere was now awkward for all my guests. The next day my husband lectured me about how I hurt Sarah's feelings and demanded I apologize to her.
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    We argued and he slept on the couch. Things eventually cooled down so I tried to talk to him about it the following days but he shut me down and just told me I was being over dramatic about the situation. I've never even seen Sarah until my wedding, I have no clue why she would lash out like that. I'm hurt that my husband
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    doesn't see my perspective. Even though she was drunk, she ruined my special day and now I can't think of the happy memories I have because I can only think of that incident. Sorry for the long read, thanks for listening.
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    Accomplished_Are... • 1y ago They were a thing. Or are a thing. Not too late to get out so you don't have to deal with him.
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    Hungry_Bee6535 • 1y ago I can't believe your husband defended his "friend" rather than defending you on your wedding day and forced you to apologize to his "friend" because you hurt her feelings. Your husband blames you for ruining the
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    wedding instead of Sarah. It feels like your husband married Sarah that day and not you. It clearly shows he is not concerned with your feelings but he is more concerned with Sarah's feelings.
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    XXSKSxx • 1y ago So you (23) married your Highschool sweetheart (26) which means that you've been dating for at least some time between 5 to 8 years depending if you were. both in Highschool when you started dating.
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    And you've never even met or heard of this person that is such a good friend to your husband that he stands up for her on his wedding day against his bride?
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    Who is this woman? How can they be close friends if you've never even heard of her? When are they meeting to experience this friendship? How does his cousin know her that they're close enough that Sarah's her plus one at your wedding. You clearly didn't
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    invite her if you didn't even know her. And that person was pretty obviously jealous and vengeful. Getting drunk, screaming at the bride, destroying the wedding cake, insulting the bride. Why? Who is she? How does
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    she even know your husband? The only thing she didn't do was stand up during the vows, object and declare her love for him. But it was close.
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    And then there's your dear husband: he let her scream at you and destroy the cake and took her side? And slept on the couch on his wedding night because he was mad on this woman's behalf? That's a lot of emotional investment for a person that his wife hasn't even met in all those years.
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    There are so many red flags here. You need to talk to your husband about Sarah. And I'd also contact the cousin.
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    Dry_Ask5493 1y ago Sarah is is side piece and she had a meltdown because you got married to her man. Also, his cousin knows that he's cheating on you with her. I suggest you go through his phone and then file for an annulment.

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