Son Reconciles With Absent Father When He Learns of His Medical Condition, Leading to Heartwarming Family Reunion [Update]

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Sep 15, 2024 1:00 PM EDT

Welcome back internet enthusiasts. In the era of no contact it can be almost too easy to 180 on someone and just block them from your life. This story is a perfect example of why that may not be the best first reaction. People are multifaceted; we all make mistakes, and having the opportunity to atone for those mistakes is what makes us grow, and giving someone the opportunity (within reason) can result in a beautiful situation that neither person expected. 

This brings us to the Reddit thread. The son is convinced he never wants to speak to his father again. Due to his reaction, his mother gets involved and tells him to reconsider. He doesn't want to, until she invites the father over. You'll have to read the piece to see the beauty of their forgiveness, but it's an important reminder that everyone is human. 
 

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    A lot of people told me to confront my mom on why she was pushing so hard, and I did. After a while she gave in and told me we should ask my dad over. 25 minutes later we're all sitting in my living room and they tell
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    r/AITAH 18 hr. ago Only Wasabi7243 UPDATE; AITAH for telling my dad to cherish his other son because he's the only one he has left
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    Hi I wasn't going to make an update post but more and more people kept asking for one so here I am. I'm sorry I stopped replying but the post got attention and I freaked out a bit. I stopped replying i didnt stop reading comments and the 100+ dms people sent me. This won't be long.
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    A lot of people told me to confront my mom on why she was pushing so hard, and I did. After a while she gave in and told me we should ask my dad over. 25 minutes later we're all sitting in my living room and they tell me my dad has cancer, he won't be getting through it and he won't be here for my 21st he won't be here for my college
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    graduation he won't be here for my wedding or when I have kids.
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    It's different when someone won't be there but could be, as an absent parent is. Some of you suggested to go no contact for a few years and reassess later, well I can't do that. People told me to ask myself I'd I'd miss him if he was gone and I want a dad idk what to say who doesn't want a father in their life yes I seemed indifferent in my post and I really
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    felt that way but hes not gonna be here so i don't really get to take my time and go to therapy which almost every single person suggested.
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    If i only get to have a dad for a year then I'm taking it. I'm going on the trip with him. They made it very clear there's a chance he won't be here and if that happens he wants me to go with my mom. He'd planned for us to see the country, see where he grew up make memories together so I'd have something.
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    I know people will be mad with what I'm doing, im sorry. Thank you for your advice and your personal stories to try and help me decide on what I should do. Is he just doing this now to clear his conscious? Probably. Idc. He won't get to see either of his kids grow up I think that's punishment enough.
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    Muffin Gem 18h ago It's completely alright that you've changed your mind. after learning about your dad's illness. Your decision is a personal one, and it sounds like you're making the choice that feels right for you given the circumstances. Don't let anyone make you
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    feel bad for prioritizing your relationship with your dad during this difficult time.
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    Emily_Power Emily Power 18h ago. That's heartbreaking, even though he was an absent, father he's still the only father you have and I completely understand why you would go on that trip and I really hope you enjoy your time with him.
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    Anyone that is upset with your decision need to mind their own business, it's your life and your choice to have a relationship with your dad.
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    shellz_bellz ⚫ 17h ago I know how you feel. I decided to go NC with my dad after years of neglect, but when I found out he'd had a heart attack, I started speaking to him again. It's not because of the kind of people they are, it's the kind of people we are. And when
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    they pass, we won't regret that last bit of time we had with them.
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    LiketoChillatHome • 18h ago Don't bother with other people's opinion. You do what feels right for you. I am so sorry that your father is dying and it took that to make him appreciate you. Go and make some good memories, and be at peace
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    MisterZimster • 17h ago Everyone will definitely think I'm a jerk, but, get proof. You never know, this could be a play to get him back in your life. Just saying.
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    T... 17h ago Edited 17h ago It's funny how people remember they are parents when they see death knocking on their doors.
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    I can understand that you want to keep the chance to have something from that man but it will never erase years of absence or pain! It will be a small bandages over big deep wounds. Your supposed dad must understand that and see that making memories will be
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    only possible if he own his responsibilities and act better. If he continues to dismiss your feelings you will waste your time,hurt yourself and it will be traumatic
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    I encourage you to start therapy now to heal but also prepare yourself on what will come! Good luck and I wish you well.
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