17-year-old inherits his wealthy grandpa's estate then gets hounded by greedy family members who all want 'their cut': '[I'm] not sharing my trust fund with my step siblings'

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    AITAH for not sharing my trust fund with my step siblings? I'm 17M and my parents divorced 2 years ago. Nothing crazy happened. The marriage was just
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    not working out. My mom remarried and I have two step siblings. My dad did not. My grandfather on my dad's side is really old and he eventually drafted up a will. While he was writing it he eventually met with me and my dad. He told us that
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    before he died he wanted to make sure I would be okay in the long run, so he's setting up a trust fund for me and my dad will be the trustee. I won't be accessing this trust fund until I graduate college. I'm not sure how much it is but my
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    dad said it's in the six figures. This was all planned. My grandpa wanted to make sure I was fully set up for life since I'm his only grandson and we are very close. He has no one else to leave anything to besides me and my dad.
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    Due to the divorce, I spend half my time with my dad and half with my mom. As I mentioned before, my mom remarried someone with kids. My step-siblings are around my age, and while I get along with them okay, we're not super close.
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    They're cool and all and I don't have any dislike to them, but I don't really see them as my siblings. They don't see me that way either. Recently, my mom ended up finding out about my grandpa's
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    plans to leave me a trust fund. My stepdad and she sat me down on the couch and said we need to discuss my trust fund. They told me since I'm getting a lot of money I should share it with my step-siblings. Their reasoning is that we're all "family" now, and it
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    wouldn't be fair for me to have all this wealth while my step-siblings get nothing. They feel that since my grandpa is giving me such a valuable asset, I should use it to help everyone out, especially because my step-siblings aren't in a good financial situation and will need to afford college.
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    While I understand where they're coming from, I don't think it's fair to expect me to share the property. This trust fund is coming from my grandpa, who has no relationship or obligation to my step-siblings. He specifically wants me to have it, and it feels
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    wrong to go against his wishes by giving part of it away to people he's not connected to. I also can't access this money until I graduate college so it's not like I can even do anything with it right now. They want my money to pay for their
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    step kids' colleges but by the time I access the money they would've graduated college by then or have been in their last year. Also they are saying my step siblings are in a bad financial situation but this isn't completely
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    true. They may not be able to afford a lot of colleges but they can definitely go to a state school and that's still really good. When I told my mom and stepdad how I felt, they got upset and said I was being selfish and not
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    thinking of the family as a whole. They think I'm being greedy for wanting to keep everything for myself, even though I don't feel like it's their place to ask me to share something that was never meant for anyone but me. I told
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    my dad and grandpa about it and my grandpa was angry and called my mom and stepdad and told them that the trust fund is for me and no one else and they have no right to it. Obviously I'm conflicted. I don't wish anything bad on my step
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    siblings, but my grandpa obviously left me money to give me a head start in life. After college that money will be super useful for investments, housing, and other stuff. If I use it to pay for my step siblings college I
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    probably won't have much left. My mom and stepdad are being cold towards me and my step siblings have no idea what's going on. I'm starting to reconsider now because I don't want to ruin the relationship with my mom and her husband. AITA?
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    Material_Cellist4133 Whatever you do, DO NOT SHARE THAT MONEY. Tell your father. What your mother is doing is pure manipulation and disgusting. She should be ashamed to call herself your mother. Such a disgraceful POS. NTA. Involve your father.
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    Individual_You_65... NTA. Your step siblings will eventually inherit funds from their own parents and grandparents. They are not signing a contract to give any of their money back to you?
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    And as the money from your grandpa's funds isn't accessible to you anyway, what do they expect you to do? Your grandpa isn't even dead yet; it's still his money and these greedy (and totally unrelated) people are already planning on how to spend it? I wish I had half their audacity!
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    Objective_Attemp... NTA, but tell your dad and Grandpa. My guess is Grandpa will bring the hammer down, I would.
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    Seductive_Carol ⚫ NTA. The trust fund is specifically for you from your grandfather, and it's not your responsibility to share it with your step-siblings. It's great to be generous, but you're not obligated to finance their education.
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