Man slanders wife to friends and family after she refuses to double date with his toxic ex, the internet backs her up on his red flags: “He’s choosing her over you”

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    AITAH for telling my husband I won’t hang out with his ex wife?

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    I'll try to make this short. I met my husband 7 years ago when he was going through a divorce. When his ex wife found out about me, she did everything she could to make my life miserable including having friends of hers come to my house and threaten me. They were in a very contentious divorce and he told me he HATED her. They had a
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    4 year old child that they share 50/50 custody of. After some years and things have calmed down, We have all managed to be cordial to each other for the sake of the child. Fast forward to now, she has never remarried. Every time we are forced to be together (think sports games, school events) She follows my
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    hubby around like a lost puppy and talks about old memories when they were together. For the sake of the child, I kept the peace. Recently, it was presented to me that we should go on a double date with her and her new boyfriend. I discreetly told my husband that the idea sounded awful. So he sent out a group text
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    to his and told everyone that I was an Ahole for not wanting to hang out with this lady. His family is acting like I need to "get over it" and go hang out with the woman that I don't trust and don't like. I feel like I'm living in the twilight Zone.
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    blueberryxxoo He did what now? You should have way more anger directed at your husband. That was beyond . He needs to fix that. You do not need to go on a double date with his ex. That's kind of a no brainer.
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    Why does your husband even care? They can co-parent without dinner dates. NTA
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    Brownie-0109 You're saying HE's the one who sent out the text? I'd say you have a lot more issues with your husband, vs your husband's ex
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    Aggressive_Cup8452 She's toxic and he likes the attention.
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    In your case.. she's not your problem, he is. You said no to a double date with HIS ex and he send out a GROUP TEXT calling you the ahole. Sounds like he misses being toxic as well. NtA.
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    DisastrousMachine568 He doesn't prioritise you, he throws you under the bus, he calls you an ahole to your extended family in a group chat and you stay with him because what?
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    WinterFront1431 I'm sorry, but hubby would be out the door if he even did that to me.
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    She's toxic. You don't have to get over someone harassing you and making your life h_I, you sure, as sh don't have to be her friend when she decides. But his message to the group chat would end the relationship for me and I'd tell
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    him to go on a double date with her and bring who ever he wants as you are done, better yet go f your toxic ex. Your husband is gross
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    Leavelnteresting3290 NTA he sent out a group - text saying you are an a_h_le ? I wonder why he got divorced and his ex was so ped at him?
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    damemistreess NTA. You shouldn't be forced to socialize with someone who's made your life hard.
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    FryOneFatManic While the ex is a problem, so is your husband. Time for couples counselling. If he doesn't want to do this, then it is time to consider the end of the relationship. You deserve respect, and he's not showing you any.
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    Clean Factor9673 You have a husband problem. He's pushing you to go on a double date with his toxic ex. Hard no.
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    Then he's castigated you in a group chat so his family can have a go at you? This is the kind of sh that gets people divorced. NTA

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