17-year-old flees home to live with grandparents when mom announces she’s having a 6th child, parents try to sue them for taking their son: “I couldn’t take it anymore”

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    AITA for moving in with my grandparents the same day my parents announced my mom's pregnant again?

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    My parents had me (17m) when they were 19 (mom) and 20 (dad). We lived with my mom's parents until I was 6. Then my parents moved the three of us into another house and told me the reason was because they were having another kid. In the almost 11 years since then my parents had five more kids. My parents
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    don't know how to be parents and my siblings don't know how to act because of that. They spit, mess with people's food by like slobbering all over it or putting it in their own mouths and spitting it back out, they leave sh out everywhere to rot and they'll throw food on the floor. Like if my mom gets froze pizzas for
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    dinner and there's something my siblings don't like on it the topping goes on the floor. They have tantrums in public and break stuff all the time.
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    With my youngest current sibling my parents put her in my room when she was a baby instead of theirs and I had to wake up with her at night and deal with the dirty diapers and stuff. It was stressful. Plus my parents are always trying to make me babysit and stuff.
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    So last week when my mom and dad announced mom's pregnant again I called my grandparents so fast my head was probably spinning and I begged them to let me come live with them because I couldn't deal with it anymore. They were furious when they heard mom was expecting another kid and said yes straight
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    away. I packed up my essentials (including my passport and other papers) and I left.
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    My parents are ped because they don't have help and because I didn't talk to them about it. My grandparents dealt with my parents and their anger but my parents called the cops on my grandparents twice already and they're threatening to sue them now. AITA?
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    Lost_Needleworke... Nta, and for reference you're 17 the police aren't going to do anything, so just ignore your parents they have no solid ground to stand on.
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    ZookeepergameW... NTA. Let them threaten to sue. I mean...... sue for what, exactly? Removal of the unpaid nanny service? Getting a life and an education? They've called the cops twice, and obviously, that didn't work,
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    so now they're trying another tactic. Newsflash - that won't work either. No court is ever going to look at this. Tell them that if they don't back off, you'll report them for child neglect. (The way your siblings are being reared is certainly not good parenting.)
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    Poetryinsimplethi... I would be petty and called CPS on them every time they called the cops. Let them explain to both the cops and CPS that they are suing the grandparents because they can't parentify their 17yrs old because of them.
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    Senior_Hall_1989 NTA-coming from a mom of 4 kids (1 teenager and 3 adults) YOUR parents are lazy disrespectful parents to lazy disrespectful kids. You leaving at 17 is a good thing. Their children are NOT your problem. Help your grandparents while
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    living there. Keep a clean house and keep good grades. (That advice is if cops or cops try and say anything -that is to cover your bt) Be respectful to them and help them. Go live your life! Always protect yourself and your grandparents. You got this!!!
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    Glittering_Bug_6630 NTAI have 5 sons the oldest is 13 and the youngest are 6.5yr old twins with one being nonverbal autistic my oldest has NEVER changed a diaper or got up in the middle of the night with his brothers
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    invisiblizm Please Check and lock down your credit OP
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    culpeppertrain Make a written list of all the things going on in your home that show they are unable to care for you. List how their use of you as a free nanny is interfering with your education. Detail other neglect. Make copies and have it ready to share with authorities.
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    IntrovertSuperHero Not sure where you live but some jurisdictions look at a 16/17 year old leaving the house as an I informed choice. Meaning if the person willingly left the house, then they won't do anything.
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    flowervicky You did what's best for you. Your parents need to take responsibility, not rely on you.
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    Icy_Anything_8874 Parent here...sorry but your parents are crappy, especially for making you the caregiver of your baby sibling. You had every right to call grandparents for help and get out of there. Glad you have some support. If you are still in school, talk
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    with a guidance counselor and have them document the living situation at your house. If not school then make a statement with child protective services in your area. Your grandparents are going to need protection and documentation if parents are making claims enough for the police to show up.

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