‘I'll keep my mouth shut’: Boss demands employee stay silent during project presentation, trying to take credit for employee's work, VP puts boss in her place

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  • Sure; I’ll keep my mouth shut

    This happened years ago but it still makes me grin, Grinch-style. I was working on a really big project at the time.
  • The VP was aware that I was the main resource on the project, so he included me in the status meetings.
  • My manager did NOT like that; she didn't want anyone else getting any kind of recognition for the project.
  • so I was instructed to sit there and keep my mouth shut. The next status meeting came around and I did just what she told me to do: I sat there, taking notes and saying nothing...
  • right up until the VP started asking questions about project details, which she couldn't answer because she was the only person attached to the project who did not actually \work\ on the project.
  • She was furious but what could she do? After that disaster, I was allowed to attend \and\ participate.
  • BlitzAceSamy So your VP knew you were the main resource of the project so included you in the status meetings, but directed questions to your manager who couldn't answer, and then just not redirect those questions at you, instead allowing you to stay silent at your manager's expense? Were your VP aware of the shit your manager was trying to pull or something?
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  • OP VisionAri_VA I don't think the VP really liked her (hardly anyone did, tbf), so I suspect he enjoyed putting her on the hot seat.
  • likeablyweird Was your manager punished in any way by VP? That would've been glorious. Or was it a lesson for her and she became more knowledgeable about projects in her queue? What if every time the VP heard her name attached to a project, he asked to speak to the people who were Really doing the job. Hehe.
  • OP VisionAri_VA He punctured her inflated ego by letting her look stupid, lol.
  • Frogsama86 I was put on a project to provide field related assistance. Guy in charge was not happy, and sent an email to keep my opinions to myself(had not even said. anything yet). A few weeks later I noticed that his draft had some flaws. I said nothing and it ended up costing 15k to rectify. Department head who put me on the project asked if I saw it, to which I confirmed. Showed him the guy's email and the head ripped the guy a new one.
  • robjeffrey I have seen this play out as a third party in many project meetings. It's very clear to everyone what is going on and I love sharing a smile with the actual silent adult in the room.
  • Imaginary-Yak-6487 I've had this happen me too. Just sat there with my shut. I'm a community manager for an apartment complex & have been in this industry for almost 20 years. I've been at my current site for almost 12 years. I know a little bit. I try to help as much as I can when asked. But... Sometimes a new regional comes in not knowing a damn thing about what's going on or even trying to learn about their own portfolio, site staff & treating us like 5 yr olds in a condescending, patronizing
  • Coder Joe1 Either her mind reading failed or your telepathic communication is on the fritz.
  • BrainWaveCC I had a related situation to this one. I had a relatively new boss in a merged org, who was a huge gatekeeper for everything that pertained to the part of the org they had been from. They were quite successful in keeping me away from any contact with key players in that part of the org -- in fairness, I wasn't trying to do more work if no one wanted me to do more work. Then they were away from work from one full month, and in that time, people who had needs decided to reach out to me
  • No_Group5174 I joined a team as the most junior project engineer (but closest to the work) but was still invited to customer meetings. The boss was happy for me to jump in and answer a customer's questions. He had two rules. "No lying to the customer and the responsibility for what you say being correct is on your head". The customer confided that our project was his favourite as he could rely on what he was being told. He was very forgiving and would work with us when things went wrong. Best jo
  • nicksteron Many times yes, when leadership sees and lets so called leaders hang themselves, it is impressive.
  • Flicksterea I've had similar experiences wherein a business leader wanted to look knowledgeable and specified to me that she would handle the Q&A with a potential new client. Idiot woman couldn't answer their questions. I could have but she was very specific about my not answering. I still laugh about this years later!

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