Neighbor stores boyfriend's car in a shared driveway for 6 months, nearby resident has had enough: ‘I'm losing my mind’

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  • A truck and a car, parked in a driveway.
  • "My neighbor has been using our shared driveway to store her boyfriend's car for six months and acts like I'm insane for bringing it up"

    I (35M) live in a semi-detached house and share a driveway with my next-door neighbor Carol, mid-50s, been there for about twelve years.
  • When I moved in two years ago she was perfectly fine, we'd wave, occasionally chat for a few minutes, totally normal.
  • Then last September her boyfriend started coming around more and more and at some point his truck just never left.
  • It's a big Ford F-250 and it takes up easily two thirds of the shared drive, which means I have to park at a weird angle and I've already scraped my bumper once trying to get out in the morning when I'm in a rush.
  • I knocked on her door about it maybe four months ago, very politely, just said hey I'm finding it hard to get in and out with the extra vehicle there, is there any way he could park on the street.
  • She smiled and said "of course, so sorry, I'll talk to him." The truck moved for exactly three days.
  • Since then I've mentioned it twice more and both times she acts genuinely confused, like I'm describing something that isn't happening.
  • Last week I left a note, nothing aggressive, just asked again if we could figure out a solution.
  • A piece of notebook paper against a blue background.
  • She knocked on my door the same evening and told me I was being "very hostile" and that she was "just trying to support her partner." Her boyfriend was standing behind her the whole time not saying a word.
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  • Milky-Way-Occupant Find out where the property or easement line is and mark it out with a barrier. What jerks. There's a good chance he's a controlling and potentially abusive person so maybe use caution.
  • OP Interstellar7X The property line/easement idea is actually solid, I've been meaning to pull the plat map anyway. A small marker or low barrier feels less "petty" than a fight at the door. The abusive angle, I can't say for sure from 3 awkward talks, but the silent boyfriend + her doing the "you're crazy" routine does give me weird vibes. I'll be careful and keep it all in writing from now on.
  • todaythruwaway If you have a landlord, speak to them about it. Our neighbor did this and we didn't want to start shit so we just left it, which just made her feel even more entitled. Start by taking photos daily to you can prove how often it happens and then get a dash cam, bc she probably will lash out.
  • OP Interstellar7X No landlord, we both own, so it's on me to document and push it. I'm starting quick pics + dates. Dash cam might be overkill, but I can see her twisting the story.
  • laj43 I would park in the driveway so he can't fit in it. Maybe back in and park right near the street at the edge of the driveway.
  • Readabook23 This. You have a right to park, he doesn't.
  • MaryHadALittleLamb20 I think you either escalate it or dare I say suck it up. She is being inconsiderate and unless you say you know I have asked nicely more than once but I have honestly had enough so since you won't be respectful I will now escalate to get it resolved.
  • VanessaAlexis "Move your fucking car."
  • Any_Ad9856 Since you own the property, look at your deed for the exact location of your property line and have a line painted to indicate this on the drive. Make sure the line is on YOUR property line. If the truck is parked within your property line, then that is trespassing.

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