'He's making it out like I'm some jealous psycho': Woman refuses to let boyfriend invite his female BFF over after he tries to convince her that the only option would be to sleep in the same bed together

Every couple has their fair share of boundary discussions, but some situations are so obviously over the line that it's truly shocking they need to be debated at all. One of the clearest examples of a near-universal boundary that needn't be up for debate in most relationships is whether or not a person should get to share a bed with someone else when their partner isn't home. Most people would rightly assume that the bed is reserved strictly for the couple, but you'd be surprised how often this simple rule gets questioned.

When one woman's boyfriend invites his female bestie over for the weekend, she doesn't really bat an eye. Sure, she won't be there that weekend, but she trusts him. However, when he insists that the only place for her to sleep is their bed, alarm bells start sounding in her brain. She offers plenty of alternatives, from a new air mattress to covering the cost of a hotel, but her boyfriend just digs in his heels. To make matters worse, this girl isn't just an innocent friend; the pair have a romantic history together and regularly FaceTime together late at night.

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AIO for telling my boyfriend his “best friend" can't sleep over in our bed while I'm away?

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I've never been against my partner having female friends, and it sounds like our narrator is in the same camp. She was perfectly fine with the idea of him having this girl over at the beginning. So, no, this isn't about jealousy at all; it is about basic respect.
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No one is this dumb! Let's say, for argument's sake, that the bed is the only option. I know my partner would never suggest he sleep in the same bed as a female friend; he might offer the bed and then choose to sleep on the floor or the couch! There are so many ways to avoid this situation and this man is making every attempt to make it seem like his hands are tied.
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