Employee loses job opportunity after former coworker exposes them for taking credit on a project they didn't earn: 'I didn't badmouth her, just gave a factual example'

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  • "AITA for refusing to recommend my former coworker for a promotion after she took credit for my work?"

    I (30F) used to work with "Leah" (28F) at a mid-sized ad agency. We were friendly coworkers, not besties, but we grabbed lunch and collaborated often.
  • About a year ago, I created a campaign that ended up landing one of our biggest clients.
  • The credit presentation? Leah gave it. At the time, I didn't make a scene. She brushed it off as a "team effort," and our boss seemed to think she led it.
  • I was frustrated, but I didn't want to burn bridges. Fast forward: I left the company six months ago for a new job at a larger firm.
  • Recently, our creative director here asked if I knew Leah because she had applied for a senior role on my team.
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  • He said, "You worked with her, what do you think?" I was honest. I said she's creative and hardworking, but has a tendency to overstate her involvement in team projects.
  • I didn't badmouth her, just gave a factual example. He thanked me and moved on. Now Leah texted me saying she didn't get the job and heard from a mutual friend that I "badmouthed" her.
  • She said I "sabotaged her future over one misunderstanding" and that I "should've been professional enough to let it go." I told her being professional includes being truthful when asked for a reference.
  • Now mutuals are split, some say I was fair, others say I could've been more diplomatic.
  • AITA for being brutally honest when asked for a reference?
  • AdventurousDate2201 NTA. You didn't "sabotage" her, you gave an accurate assessment when directly asked. Integrity doesn't mean sugarcoating. If her career depends on people never mentioning her behavior, that's on her, not you.
  • grayblue_grrl You mean she expected you to do more for her than she did for you? Wow. How surprising./s NTA
  • Bonnm42 NTA I would have added "People who act professionally don't steal and take credit for other peoples work. If they do, they usually understand they burned that bridge and will not get a good reference from the person they screwed over."
  • BlueInFlorida NTA What exactly do liars expect? I guess they tell themselves that "everyone does it" so it's okay.
  • Delicious_Ad4769 NTA. She would likely create a toxic work environment if she continued with her selfish attitude and no one wants that. This is all on her. Karma is a bitch
  • Chris45925 Also she was applying for a job in a senior role ON YOUR TEAM! I would not have wanted to work with her again and risk a repeat of the same behavior. Your company doesn't need this behavior either. You are certainly NTA

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