red flag

Dad skips daughter's rescheduled wedding to go on a motorcycle trip with his buddies after spending $22,500 on her first wedding, which she cancelled last-minute after a fight with her fiance: ‘I was stuck with the bill’

Ely Bulnes

‘I was really embarrassed’: Whiny boyfriend spends all long road trip to mountain range sighing and complaining about driving, making his girlfriend cringe, and their friends awkwardly enduring hours of discomfort

Etai Eshet

‘I can see how many red flags I overlooked’: Woman blocks her ex-fiancé’s attempt to take her son’s trust fund, setting off pressure from family and work connections as he tries involving everyone from bosses to relatives to get his way

Etai Eshet

27-year-old pushes back when her fiancé insists on moving 3 hours away from her job for a quirky, remote house, risking her career: ‘He really thinks I’m being dramatic about this and I’ll just “figure it out”’

Etai Eshet

‘Moral of the story, MICROCHIP YOUR PETS’: Ex keeps woman’s cat for 2 years after messy breakup, but she rescues him with the help of a vet and savors the irony as his family grieves for a cat happily living with her

Etai Eshet

Woman offers to "treat" best friend on her 30th birthday, ends up feeding her a single pita, withholding her birthday cake, and making her share a room with her adopted kids: 'No candles, no singing, no warmth'

Ely Bulnes

Husband's sympathetic reaction to the Coldplay concert affair couple seems like a red flag to wife that he isn't really sorry for cheating in the past, she reconsiders 12-year marriage: 'He inadvertently told on himself'

Ely Bulnes

Ungrateful 29-year-old husband resells wife's thoughtful Dungeons and Dragons-themed birthday gift, refuses to accept anything that isn't on his wishlist: '[He] ruined D&D for me'

Ely Bulnes

Divorced dad shuts down ex-wife Marin’s demands to buy school supplies for her other kids after custody clash and cheating: ‘I told her I don't care if they can't afford their other kids’

Etai Eshet

Well-meaning boyfriend gets girlfriend a cake to celebrate a promotion she never received in attempt to help her "manifest" success with "good vibes," she reacts negatively: "I had to explain [to our server] that it wasn't true"

Ely Bulnes

Woman cuts Olive Garden Tinder date when Dave shows up with a surprise daughter and iPad after claiming to be childless: ‘I got dressed in a nice outfit… When I found Dave at the table, he had a little girl with [him]’

Etai Eshet

38-year-old millionaire expects working class girlfriend to pay majority of living expenses in exchange for agreeing to move abroad with her, she starts to question his finances: "[He says] he is making a sacrifice for me"

Ely Bulnes

31-year-old boyfriend refuses to let girlfriend use bathroom after 10 PM, claiming it is one of his "boundaries," she refuses to stay at his place anymore and considers break up: "That's not normal, right?"

Ely Bulnes

Uncle demands that 26-year-old niece cover up tattoos at family BBQ despite the 90-degree weather, he accuses her of setting a bad example for the kids: "It's July. I'm not putting on jeans and a hoodie"

Ely Bulnes

24-year-old girlfriend secretly sells 38-year-old boyfriend's PS5 on eBay, claims the console was a distraction from their relationship: "I was just trying to help"

Ely Bulnes

37-year-old boyfriend tells his 5-year-old daughter to keep provoking his 27-year-old girlfriend, even after she said she feels disrespected, she considers dumping him: "Is this as big of a red flag as it feels?"

Briana Viser