“You’re blackmailing my health to win an argument”: Husband refuses to cook anymore after wife makes kitchen impossible to cook in, she feels forced to eat fast food everyday and blames him

Welcome back ladies and gentlemen. In this day and age, what we put in our bodies makes up our mental, emotional, and physical health. As we get older, our bodies become less and less forgiving to how we treat it. We've all heard the endless comparisons about what we put in our bodies to putting diesel in a gas engine car, or pouring acid on flowers instead of watering them. What we eat really does affect us in every way. It's not just what we eat, but also where we're getting the food. When we cook, we have 100% control over what we're consuming. We can add as much oil as we want, we can choose which type, and we can choose how much we're cooking, among many other aspects of feeding ourselves our own food from our kitchens. But when we eat out, even if it's at nice restaurants, there's a good chance they're putting in more oils, preservatives, and sodium into everything so that it tastes better.

In the story below, the husband and wife have an argument over the kitchen. The wife wants it more aesthetic, and the husband wants it for functionality. She keeps buying more and more items until he decides he won't cook anymore, causing her to eat fast food every day.

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AITAH for refusing to cook in our kitchen because my wife decorated it

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I would feel absolutely the same if I were him. It's a space that really should adhere to functionality as opposed to anything aesthetic. I know that when I was growing up, food and cooking was also immensely important to my father, and my mom basically never step food in the kitchen. If she tried to pull this kind of behavior, and trash his sacred space with nonsense he would throw a fit. When someone loves to cook, they need a neat and spacious environment. Also, she can still eat his food!
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“You’re blackmailing my health to win an argument”: Husband refuses to cook anymore after wife makes kitchen impossible to cook in, she feels forced to eat fast food everyday and blames him

AITAH for refusing to cook in our kitchen because my wife decorated it

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