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Woman Exposes the Most Outrageously Red Flag Voicemail from a Man and Goes Viral on TikTok

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Sometimes men are so annoyingly persistent when they approach you out of nowhere on the street or in a bar, that woman just give them their number so they will leave them alone. It's a desperate tactic, but you think, "hey, I’ll just give them what they want so they'll leave me alone right now, and then if they actually reach out, I'll just block them." You could do the ‘ole fake number trick, but with cellphones these days, the man will call you right there on the spot to give you their number (but also probably to make sure you gave them a real number, let’s be honest).

 

The audacity of theses kind of men is off the charts and, unfortunately, very much exist in today's society. TikToker Andrea Kristina aka @drekristina recently shared a voicemail she received from a man like this that just explodes with so many red flags it's ridiculous. I mean, the way this guy talks, one commenter pointed out that it sounded like Trump… 

 

The man in the voicemail approached Andrea on the street because she was “elegant” and “elegant women are very rare.” The man proceeds to tell her her in the voicemail that he's Greek and very particular about his women. He approached her while she was with friends and tells here that her friends were “extremely jealous” of him showing an interest in her, even if they say they aren't. The audacity levels are already through the roof, but he also just had to make sure he let her know that he has “no trouble meeting women” and that women approach him “6-7 times a day.” 

 

Read the first voicemail transcribed below. (Yes, he calls again even though she never calls him back and leaves a SECOND voicemail riddled with red flags!)

 

Voicemail 1:

Hi there, Olga, it's Dimitri. Sorry I had to leave such a rushed message there with you when we met the other day. I just wanted to quickly give you my phone number and I had to get the heck out of the area. In any event, I figured I better leave you a more detailed message and explain why I approached you. I am single, I have no trouble meeting women, I mean, women approach me 6-7 times a day. But I'm very particular on what I like and you're extremely elegant. I couldn't take my eyes off of you. And your friends were extremely jealous, even if they say they weren't, they were envious of the fact that I approached you and I was very taken by you. Elegant women are very rare. I'm Greek and I'm very particular of what I like. So I'm giving you an opportunity here. I don't know if you pick up your messages on the weekend, but I'm working on a movie script, so I'm pretty much around all weekend doing that. I left you my number [redacted], this looks like a landline and if it is, you may not get the message until Monday, but when you do, call me and then we'll get together for coffee and chat and let the romance begin. You look very taken aback from my approach and I hope that isn't timidness and it was just shock at being approached directly. Because I don't really date timid women because I'm a very direct very passionate very assertive man and I want a woman who is very independent and strong. So anyway, we'll talk about that, I just wanted to formally introduce myself. Now I have. I leave the ball in your court. You call me as soon as you have the courage to…

 

The thing with these kind of men who are obviously suffering from delusional narcissism, is that they are persistent. Even though she obviously did not call this man back and he even described in the first voicemail that she looked extremely uncomfortable when he initially approached her on the street, he calls again. He leaves a second voicemail (transcribed below) that provides so many more red flags—I mean, this guy could be taught in school as an example of where to find all the red flags. 

 

This time he says “I don't like leaving second messages, but I like you, you're very elegant, you're very attractive.” If that isn't creepy enough, he carries on to explain why he's “a catch” and talks about how he had a year-long long-distance relationship that ended four months prior. He threateningly says, “So here's how it's gonna work,” then tells her when to call him or she'll lose this catch of a man. He says, “I'm completely single. I'm very intelligent. I'm great in bed. I make great money. Believe it or not, I'm a complete catch.” I don't know how Kristina was able to get through these two voicemails without barfing from the toxic levels of audacity coming out of this man's mouth. 

 

Voicemail 2:

Hi there, Olga, it's Dimitri calling again, the guy from the street. I left you a message several days ago. You said you were interested. So here's the way I work. I don't like leaving second messages, but I like you, you're a very elegant woman, you're very attractive. But, I don't play that game. I know your friends tell you not to return calls; you're playing games like you see on stupid TV shows. So here's how it's gonna work. It is now 4:30 on Wednesday. Now, I'll assume, I'll assume that you already left work, because you know some people leave early, and I'll grant you that. But if I do not receive a phone call back from you by 3 o'clock Thursday afternoon, I'm no longer interested and you can erase my number. I don't play games like that. I'm completely single. I'm very intelligent. I'm great in bed. I make great money. Believe it or not, I'm a complete catch. I've only been single four months, I had a long distance relationship. You know, I went a year, it's very hard to maintain it like that and it didn't work out. There's nothing wrong…"

 

Kristina obviously did not call this man back and hopefully he stuck to his callback “deadline” rule and is not interested anymore. Because the way he talks is red flag-stalker level creepiness. Seriously, are men ok? This man would suggest not. 

 

“Bringing Dimitri out from the vault”:

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